How many of you remember turning 40? Yes, I know many of you haven’t reached that milestone in life yet, but many of us are way past that – like me! I clearly remember certain things about that event, two of which I still remember distinctly. First, my life was most likely at least half over, and I was asking the question, “What have I accomplished … how many lives had been positively spiritually impacted by the ministry our Lord had entrusted to my care? Second, West Oaks Fellowship, which was then called Grace Church (Grace Ministries & Fellowship), was meeting in the facility we previously owned on Schiller Road (purchased from the Missouri Synod Lutheran Diocese). At that point in our history, we were primarily a white congregation (Brother Leroy, an exception) and had not yet embraced our current purpose of being a diversified church made of many cultures and heritages, that actually looks (ethnically speaking) like our neighborhood and our Lord’s heaven.
On June 22, 2025, our church will celebrate her 40th Anniversary, preceded by our formerly annual private anniversary picnic celebration (lots of fun for everyone from the youngest to the oldest) at Cinco Ranch Water Park on Thursday evening, June 19th, from 6-9 pm.
I sincerely hope you will make whatever arrangements are necessary so you and yours can fully participate in both of these special occasions / events!
40 is a pretty significant number in the Scriptures. This number appears over 150 times in both the New and Old Testament. You may recall some of its prominent uses … It rained for 40 days and 40 nights in the days of the flood, Christ Jesus was in the wilderness fasting (where He was tempted by Satan) for 40 days and 40 nights. Moses, after going up Mt. Sinai, received the 10 Commandments during a 40 day and 40-night timeframe. Israel’s designated spies searched the promised land for 40 days, Goliath taunted Israel for 40 days, God gave Nineveh 40 days to repent, and Christ ascended to heaven 40 days after His resurrection. In addition, the nation of Israel wandered 40 years in the wilderness, Eli, Deborah, and Gideon judged for 40 years, then King Saul, King David, King Solomon, and King Joash all reigned over the nation for 40 years. In the Bible, 40 years is also designated as the period of one generation.
The number 40, biblically speaking, is in many significant events, some trial and testing, some transformation – like Moses’ encounter with the burning bush or receiving God’s direct commandments for the governing of His people. Even deliverance and protection are demonstrated as Noah and his family experienced within the sanctuary of the God-designed ark, while the earth was experiencing great upheavals!
Thus He blotted out every living thing that was upon the face of the land, from man to animals to creeping things and to birds of the sky, and they were blotted out from the earth; and only Noah was left, together with those that were with him in the ark.
— Genesis 7:23
My 40-year tenure as the founding, and now Lead Pastor / Elder at WOF, has been filled with much testing, many trials, at times great tiring / exhausting difficulties, along with enumerable blessings, delightful victories, spiritual liberations, and immeasurable redemptive triumphs! For all, not just the good, I am forever, deeply grateful, and honored for the privilege of serving my Lord, Jesus Christ, and each of you as His people. These are truly my continuous thoughts …
I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, always offering prayer with joy in my every prayer for you all, in view of your participation in the gospel from the first day until now. For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. For it is only right for me to feel this way about you all, because I have you in my heart, since both in my imprisonment (this hasn’t happened to me yet, even though I was prepared for it during COVID) and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel, you all are partakers of grace with me.
— Philippians 1:3-8
During this past 40 years, I only considered resigning and just walking away once. Then, we were at our Schiller Road location (just almost due south of our current facility). I was basically worn out and needed some ministerial / pastoral help to assist me with the routine task of teaching, preaching and leading the body. I had previously helped a pastor friend of mine recover form a downfall in his ministry and assisted in restoring his family. He was a gifted teacher, as well as an accomplished musician, and I desired to bring him in as a part time associate to help out. (Back then we met on Sunday AM, PM, Wednesday PM and had gatherings on Friday evenings along with other special events.) One Sunday morning I presented the idea to the church and was actually surprised by the resistance. I decided to move on with the service because I didn’t want to quench or potentially destroy the working of God’s Holy Spirit during that day’s worship or teaching. I, in my heart, was determined to resign at the end of the service. A very good friend of mine, who knew me very well and ran our sound, spiritually discerned exactly what was about to happen, and warned a couple of our faithful leaders what was about to occur. Then, as the service was ending, those leaders wanted to stop everything and readdress the issue … then, amazingly things moved in a completely different direction – without anyone else being informed of my intention in that moment! I believe the Lord moved powerfully to rescued me from myself!
There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.
— Proverbs 14:12
Just as you do not know the path of the wind and how bones are formed in the womb of the pregnant woman, so you do not know the activity of God who makes all things.
— Ecclesiastes 11:5
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”
— Isaiah 55:8-9
Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and unfathomable His ways!
— Romans 11:33
I have lost a lot of treasured friends (some in death, through relocation, and others just changing) over the past 40 years, and experienced many people leaving WOF simply because of me. I have also been trampled upon by individuals whom I highly respected as godly individuals and would have never believed they could / would act in such a manner. Yes, those were certainly tremendously painful, plunging deep in my heart and soul. Nonetheless, I’ve gained many, high-quality, valuable, Christ-centered relationships as West Oaks Fellowship continues it mission of “Sharing / Speaking The Truth In Love.” I still firmly and unrelentingly believe, and am fully committed, to the Lord’s calling of transforming lives through truth and love!
And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming; but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.
— Ephesians 4:11-16
As I grow older, almost 71 now, I fully recognize that my age at some point may hinder my ability to be an effective leader and teacher of God’s Word / Truth. When that time arrives, while it will be very difficult for me, I will remove myself for the benefit of the ministry. However, until that time comes, please continue steadfast in your prayers for WOF, Pastor Jacob — as he accepts more and more responsibility for the ministry, for my bride, Brenda, as she faithfully supports me and all of our on-going ministries, and me … to be strong in mind and body, and an effective communicator of our Lord’s Truth and trainer of God’s people.
Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.
— Galatians 6:9-10
This undershepherd of Jesus Christ, our Great Shepherd, truly does love the sheep that He has entrusted to my care, and I am both privileged and grateful for the opportunity to serve each of you and Christ’s little New Testament Church that meets at West Oaks Fellowship.
Grace, mercy and peace will be with us, from God the Father and from Jesus Christ, the Son of the Father, in truth and love.
— 2 John 3
Let’s allow year 40 to be a great one, all for His glory!
Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.
— 1 John 3:18-19
His & Yours always, because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)
Pastor Frank