West Oaks Fellowship

ASSEMBLY

Posted on May 19, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

As spring quickly approaches and summer is just around the corner, it is essential for believers to consider the significance of a New Testament word that only appears twice in the biblical text. Often, little attention is given to such things that would be considered by some to be a minor issue due to its frequency of use. However, the actual context declares a much different importance!

Human weaknesses continue pretty much the same as always, even for 1st century believers who faithfully followed Jesus Christ (“The Way” – Acts 9:2). However, in the era in which we find ourselves, modern day Christians have acquiesced, accumulating many more excuses for forsaking the assembly of Christ’s church than could have ever been imagined, mustered up, or even comprehended by the author of Hebrews when penning . . . “And let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together (GREEK – ‎e)pisunagwgh/ ‎episunagoge), as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.” (10:24-25)

Certainly, in this modern age, one can always just listen to a sermon podcast or online (Websites / YouTube), allowing the opportunity to pick up that extra overtime shift for some extra dough or just sleep in a little longer. Then, there’s all the travel sports tournaments and athletic events that the kids can’t possibly miss out on! After all, families can just make it up to the Lord whenever the season is over. What does that teach our children and youth in today’s church?

Since many types of technology are readily available in our western societies and one is free to use them 24/7 — anyone can just tap in at their own convenience without any regard for the instruction of scripture or needs of any others, other than themselves. But here’s the truth: you cannot replace the experience of participating in a live worship service with a recording and call it church. Digital “attendance” is a misnomer. Even the best sermon podcast or livestream is not in actuality church, and should not, in any way whatsoever, be compared to one participating in a local church service … a vital part of abundant / successful Christian living (See John 10:10).

Active involvement in a New Testament based church ministry is not an “add-on option” — like a round of golf, going on a cruise, or out for a nice dinner. Theologian Brad East, a writer for Christianity Today Magazine, in reference to church attendance / participation states, “It is how we learn to be human as God intended. Indeed, it makes possible truly human life before God.”

Sometimes, believers may find themselves in extenuating circumstances where there exist legitimate reasons for missing church. Some people have to work, because many businesses are now open on Sundays. Others are incapacitated or ill, making it impractical (physically impossible) to be actively involved. In those cases, local congregations have a ministerial duty to bring church to them, insofar as that is feasible. Therefore, many caring churches, like ours, attempt to provide easily accessible live streaming access and libraries of recorded teachings on-line for their benefit and blessing. In addition, some church members may be working, or are stationed overseas, live under persecution, or are in places where there literally are no local congregations. While these services cannot substitute for attending live services, they do provide an encouraging connection for those in these types of circumstances.

Now. Let’s dig into the scripture. Here are a few questions for every believer to contemplate.

How can every believer in Christ Jesus be faithful, “to stimulate one another to love and good deeds” if they are not participating in the on-going gatherings (assembling) of Christ’s Church?
How can fellow believers actually be, “encouraging one another” if they are not participating in the on-going gatherings (assembling) of Christ’s Church?
What does “all the more” mean for those in a church body?
Finally, what does “not forsaking” mean?

It is impossible to fulfill this straight forward admonition in absenteeism! Not as from a religious legalistic perspective, but from a Holy Spirit directed response to the Lord’s will … let us regard the welfare of others as we assemble! May we endeavor to stimulate one another for perseverance in this Christian life by mutual loving and through biblical exhortation! We are not to be selfish or take into regard only our own interests (See Philippians 2:4), but have genuine concern for each other, our fellow brothers and sisters in the Body of Christ / His Church. Are we to carry on the same ministries now, accepting the same responsibilities, as those gathered in that early Hebrew Church? Can we help each other face the trials, meeting them head on, strengthening each other and allocating appropriate time for encouraging one another? Should we? Indeed, as a small church (relatively speaking when compared to many others in Houston, Texas), most everyone can actually know most everyone else! What a unique opportunity for our assembling together! Nonetheless, individual participation becomes the crucial, underlying element. What shall we do with what’s been afforded us?

Our Lord’s Church, universal and local, is a divine institution, created and designed specifically for the Lord’s purposes and the benefit, as well as the blessing, of humanity. It’s just like as part of the original creation, He designed family! In fact, as part of the body of Christ, are we not all His sons and daughters (See 2 Corinthians 6:18) uniting us all as one divinely created / ordained family ultimately for His purposes and glory? Apparently, Christ Jesus desired for us to have His family reunions on a fairly regular / consistent / weekly basis! Actually, they are designed to continue in an unwavering manner right up until that last congregational assembly / gathering as clearly described in 2 Thessalonians 2:1-2 (where we find the second biblical use of this word)!

Now we request you, brethren, with regard to the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and our gathering together (GREEK –‎e)pisunagwgh/ ‎episunagoge) to Him, that you not be quickly shaken from your composure or be disturbed either by a spirit or a message or a letter as if from us, to the effect that the day of the Lord has come.

When I was a kid, we went to church! When we went on vacation to visit my grandparents and cousins in Oceanside, California, we went to church. When we went camping at Garner State Park for weeks every summer, we went to church in Leakey, Texas. If, when visiting my grandfather in San Antonio, we stayed over the weekend, we went to church. Today most would say that seems a little extreme, but let me tell you after my own personal emotional, spiritual, mental, and personal battle with the whole concept of “church”— I am deeply appreciative for my heritage of consistent church participation; I’m even more grateful to my Lord, that when in my hyper-critical, idealistic, judgmental thinking, as a mere human, my Lord said to me … “It’s My church, who are you to criticize it!”

It’s His Church, here for each and every one of us, what then shall we do?

-PF

GOD’S DISCIPLINE IN A FALLEN WORLD

Posted on May 19, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

On Sunday, April 26, 2026, I received the following inquiry from a faithful, serving, long-term member of West Oaks Fellowship … “How can we tell the difference between God’s discipline and bad things happening because we live in a fallen world?” Needless to say, I love these questions, but I only could offer a short, concise answer at that moment after church. Since then, I’ve developed many outlines on the topic, but all way too long to publish in Fusion or even teach on Sunday or Wednesday evenings, because it would take several weeks.

Here is a condensed version of my study, research, and writings.

Few questions cause more spiritual anguish and confusion for believers than this one: When suffering or difficulty enters our lives, what’s really happening?

Is the Lord God trying to correct us? Is He teaching us something we desperately need to learn? Or are we simply experiencing the brokenness of a world marred by sin—the kind of pain that comes to everyone who lives in a fallen creation?

The distinction matters deeply. For a committed believer desiring to live a faith-based life that glorifies the Lord, knowing the difference between these two realities can reshape how we respond, what we repent of, and how we move forward.

If we’re under God’s discipline, we need to examine our own hearts… if err is found, repent, and then realign our lives with His Word. However, if we’re suffering simply because we live in a fallen world — where catastrophe strikes, friends and family die, accidents happen, and hearts become broken for numerous reasons, then our enemy’s tool of guilt will only compound our pain and anguish or the confusion we may be experiencing. Yet in the midst of hardships, when emotions run high and clarity feels elusive, discerning between these two life-long realities may be difficult or seem almost impossible.

This confusion is not a sign of weak faith. Even mature believers struggle to interpret their various sufferings, especially when well-meaning friends (remember Job’s buddies), and or fellow believers may offer conflicting counsel. Some insist that all hardship is discipline, leaving sufferers to search desperately for hidden rebellion and sins that might not even exist. Others dismiss the possibility of divine correction entirely, potentially missing opportunities for maturing growth, impending correction and spiritually liberating repentance. The truth is more complex than either of those somewhat extreme positions. The Scriptures and God’s Holy Spirit provide us, as Christ’s disciples, with wisdom and direction to navigate these difficult waters. We don’t always enjoy absolute certainty, but we know the light of God’s Truth and the voice of our “Good Shepherd” enough to move forward in faith, trusting our Lord’s direction!

Psalm 119:105 declares, “Your Word is a lamp to my feet, and a light to my path.” Proverbs 4:18-19 reminds us, “But the path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, that shines brighter and brighter until the full day. The way of the wicked is like darkness; They do not know over what they stumble”.

When our house flooded as a result of Hurricane Harvey, I did break down crying one short time in the arms of brother Joseph Hay at the sight of the pile of all our really nice furniture (that we had had all of our lives together) and irreplaceable family heirlooms that had been accumulated for years and years. The loss was real. The grief was genuine. In that moment, standing in the wreckage of our home, the question at the heart of this entire essay became intensely personal: Were we being punished or disciplined due to our rebellion or sin? Was this simply the consequence of living in a fallen world where hurricanes destroy homes? Or was it somehow both?

The answer, I discovered, reveals exactly why discerning between God’s discipline and fallen-world suffering is so challenging—because they often operate simultaneously, on multiple levels, in the same event. Ultimately the Lord had many, many plans in play. Undoubtedly some were being disciplined, or even punished … individuals, families, and perhaps even communities or businesses. Others were appointed to die (see Hebrews 9:27) and still others would experience severe consequences. The damage to our home alone would cost 80-100K to repair.

Isaiah 55:8-9 speaks clearly – “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.

Yet at the same time—and this is crucial—opportunities arose. Churches and Christians saw the needs and mobilized to minister to anyone and everyone, including those involved in their ministries that were suffering. In our case, church members and friends came to completely demo everything under 4 feet throughout our entire house. Someone set up a Go Fund Me account which we didn’t ask for, but it became a huge blessing! Many people were indeed blessed by giving and simply helping out in many, many ways. I will never forget Melanie and Connie showing up with their special cleaning supplies and Filipino style brooms! FEMA helped nominally, providing some temporary housing, and Fort Bend County came along and replaced our entire A/C unit and water header over a year after the flood because it was considered a bio-hazard.

Psalm 145:17-19 expresses the Truth, “The Lord is righteous in all His ways and kind in all His deeds. The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth. He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He will also hear their cry and will save them.”

Throughout the whole process, we suffered lots of difficulties and discomfort, but we just kept going in the strength our Lord was providing every day. This is what makes the distinction between discipline and fallen-world suffering so complex in real life: both realities can be present in the same circumstance. The flood was a consequence of living in a broken creation. God’s redemptive purposes were simultaneously at work through His people. Some were experiencing correction. Others were experiencing loss. And many—like us—were experiencing both suffering and blessing, woven together in ways only God could orchestrate. Ultimately, we suffered greatly, but at the same time, were abundantly blessed!

Romans 11:33-36 lays it out –“Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and unfathomable His ways! For WHO HAS KNOWN THE MIND OF THE LORD, OR WHO BECAME HIS COUNSELOR? Or WHO HAS FIRST GIVEN TO HIM THAT IT MIGHT BE PAID BACK TO HIM AGAIN? For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever. Amen.”

The good news is that God is not playing games with us, hiding His intentions while we guess frantically at the meanings of our struggles or pain. He is a loving Father who communicates with His children, a Good Shepherd who guides His flock, and a faithful God whose character remains constant (unchanging / unchangeable / immutable – see Hebrews 13:8, James 1:17) even when our circumstances feel chaotic. While absolutely perfect discernment may elude us this side of eternity, we can know and learn to recognize the distinguishing marks of His discipline and the fingerprints of a fallen world that continually remain under His sovereignty. However, more importantly, we can fully trust that whether we’re experiencing correction from our loving Lord, or simply living in a broken creation, God’s purposes for us remain redemptive and purposeful! His presence (omnipresence) remains, and His unending love remains perfectly steadfast.

So if God is truly this good, this communicative, this committed to our growth—then what does His discipline actually look like in practice? How do we recognize it when it comes? The answer lies in learning to see the distinguishing marks of divine correction; the particular fingerprints God leaves on our lives when He’s calling us back to Himself. Let’s explore what biblical discipline looks like so you can move forward with confidence, knowing whether the Lord is speaking correction into your life or whether you’re simply weathering the storms that come to all of us in this broken world.

The Character of God’s Discipline

When God disciplines His children, He does so with the precision of a skilled surgeon and the tenderness of a devoted, godly parent. Biblical discipline is never arbitrary, vindictive, or designed to crush us; rather, it is corrective, purposeful, and redemptive. Hebrews 12:5-11 provides the definitive framework for understanding divine discipline, reminding us that “the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastens everyone He accepts as His son.” This discipline targets specific areas of rebellion, sin, spiritual immaturity, or dangerous trajectories in our lives. It comes with conviction, a very clear, Holy Spirit-led awareness of that which needs modification, rather than invoking shame, guilt, or some form of paralyzing despair. When the Lord corrects us, there is typically a discernible connection between the area of our disobedience and the nature of the discipline we are experiencing. A person who has been dishonest in business dealings might face exposure or financial consequences; someone who has neglected their family might experience relational breakdown that forces them to confront their priorities. This discipline feels personal because it is personal! God always knows exactly what we need to mature and grow into Christlikeness. Moreover, His discipline is always proportionate and apparently time-limited.

Hebrews 12:11 reminds us – “All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.”

Our Lord, Jesus Christ’s goal is not punishment but transformation (See Romans 12:1-2), not retribution but restoration. His discipline is an expression of His commitment to our total sanctification, which proves that He loves us too much to leave us as we are!

This concludes part 1. I will try to get part 2 out ASAP, but perhaps it won’t be finished until it’s time for next month’s Fusion.

His and yours, Because of G R A C E (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense),

EASTER VS RESURRECTION SUNDAY

Posted on April 1, 2026April 1, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

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How in the world can a word that appears only once in the entire Bible (Acts 12:4 – King James Version only) possibly come to mean so much to so many, filling both Protestant and Catholic churches worldwide with sometimes overflowing crowds once a year? Yet to other believers in Jesus Christ, this same word creates a genuinely troubled spirit when the traditions of this holiday are actually considered and realistically spiritually discerned.

But he who is spiritual appraises all things, yet he himself is appraised by no one. For WHO HAS KNOWN THE MIND OF THE LORD, THAT HE WILL INSTRUCT HIM? But we have the mind of Christ. – 1 Corinthians 2:15-16

Easter was originally a pagan festival honoring Eostre (a Saxon word) of the East, or Estera, a Teutonic goddess of light and the season of spring (Germanic – Ostern or Ostera), which was celebrated annually around the same time of year as the Jewish Passover. To be exact, it occurs at the time of the “vernal equinox”—that one day in our spring when the sun crosses the equator, making the light of day and the darkness of night exactly equal lengths. However, by the eighth century, the name “Easter” had become associated with Christianity, and was used to designate the annual celebration of Christ’s victorious resurrection… which is used—disgracefully, perhaps even sacrilegiously—in most modern-day churches and by most Christians today in our society.

In reality, based upon the New Testament practices of Christ’s Church and that of His early believers, we gather every Sunday morning (or perhaps even at sunset on the Sabbath) in celebration of Christ’s matchless, magnificent resurrection! Every Lord’s Day is Resurrection Sunday. Why then do we reserve our greatest celebration for a single day tied to pagan origins rather than rejoicing weekly in this foundational truth of our faith?

While my intention is not to judge one’s fun family traditions inappropriately, at some point we, as faithful followers of Jesus Christ, are required, perhaps challenged, to reconsider the source, value, and messaging of every cultural tradition that creeps in to secularize our Lord’s churches and infiltrate our own contemporary lifestyles. While none of us has obtained the perfection or the maturity that we have in Christ Jesus, as individuals called to live righteously, we must carefully select what’s allowed and what’s not. This is not a self-righteous platform by which one exalts themselves and in turn judges others, but a personal matter of self-awareness and discipline by which we seek to please the Lord and function in genuine, biblically-based faith!

Therefore do not be partakers with them; for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. – Ephesians 5:7-10

The question each believer must ask is this: Does the celebration of “Easter” with its eggs, bunnies, and spring fertility symbols truly honor the risen Christ? Or does it dilute the power of the resurrection by mingling the sacred with the secular, the pure and holy with the pagan? As Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 2:14, “But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.”

We must exercise spiritual discernment in all things—including our traditions, our celebrations, and the names we attach to the most significant events in our faith. The resurrection of Jesus Christ deserves better than a name borrowed from a pagan goddess. It deserves to be celebrated with clarity, with truth, and with undivided devotion to the One who conquered death and rose victorious from the grave.

Let us not be content with once-a-year enthusiasm that fades by Monday morning. Instead, let us embrace the biblical pattern of weekly celebration, gathering each Lord’s Day to proclaim with joy and heartfelt conviction: “He is risen! He is risen indeed!” This is not legalism; this is love. This is not judgment; this is discernment. This is the call to honor Christ fully, completely, and without compromise.

Just think about it!

Pastor Frank

HYPOCRISY/HYPOCRITE

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

A simple definition of hypocrisy states: the practice of claiming to have certain moral standards or beliefs while one’s own behavior does not conform or actually align with those principles, which makes that individual a hypocrite. Other words may sometimes be used to describe this seemingly common condition like sanctimoniousness, pharisaism, and duplicity.

In ancient Greek theaters, a hypocrite was an actor—someone who wore a mask and stepped into a specific role, performing not as himself, but as another. It was a term used to describe a performer skilled in their craft. However, the word moved beyond the stage plays and came to describe anyone who pretended to be something they were not!

Most everyone has experienced levels of hypocrisy as a common occurrence within the framework of everyday life. We see it everywhere—from politicians to preachers, authority figures to common people, family members and friends to business associates and team members, those hailed as heroes and even exalted athletes and social leaders. Sadly, but honestly, most of us have been in that state at one point or another in our lives! Prevalent forms of obvious hypocrisy display themselves frequently, perhaps even habitually within our culture and society:

1. Personal / Social: A person who advocates for honesty but lies continually, sometimes even about insignificant or unimportant issues.

2. Political: Leaders proclaiming certain honorable values while engaging in corrupt actions, acting as if they are above the law or somehow exempt because of the powerful positions or offices they hold.

3. Behavioral: A person criticizing others’ actions or words, like critiquing someone’s tardiness while they are known for showing up consistently late.

4. Religious: Performing outward acts of devotion while having a selfish, ungodly, unethical or immoral private life.

In the Bible, we find considerable attention given to hypocrites and their hypocrisy. Memorably, Jesus Christ denounced those who outwardly appeared to be highly religious but were inwardly filled with corruption, and woefully lacked spiritual qualities, while claiming to be experts in biblical law and its multiple applications in their society. A religious hypocrite may not be an actor on a literal stage, but puts on a show, on their own stage, before other humans and God Himself!

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness. So you, too, outwardly appear righteous to men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you build the tombs of the prophets and adorn the monuments of the righteous, and say, ‘If we had been living in the days of our fathers, we would not have been partners with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ So you testify against yourselves, that you are sons of those who murdered the prophets. Fill up, then, the measure of the guilt of your fathers. You serpents, you brood of vipers, how will you escape the sentence of hell?”

Matthew 23:27-33

The scriptures teach us to think about hypocrisy and hypocrites in several different ways, each clearly demonstrating what it may look like (appearance) or sound like (activity). The warning is articulated so all believers can be alert and identify the duping methods of the hypocrite! (Sometimes they even can fool themselves into thinking / believing they are what they claim to be.) If unrecognized and allowed to continue, this poses a potential devastating internal spiritual, as well as eternal danger! Remember the upsetting words of our Lord spoken to the exorcist and miracle workers in Matthew 7:23 – “And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.”

Consider:

The hypocrisy of performative worship. While we worship our Lord outwardly, He desires our hearts and minds to be engaged as well or one’s worship becomes meaningless and shallow. A hypocrite goes through the motions, doing and saying the right things, while his heart is actually distant from Him.

Then the Lord said, “Because this people draw near with their words and honor Me with their lip service, but they remove their hearts far from Me, and their reverence for Me consists of tradition learned by rote, therefore behold, I will once again deal marvelously with this people, wondrously marvelous; And the wisdom of their wise men will perish, and the discernment of their discerning men will be concealed.”

Isaiah 29:13-14

The hypocrisy of performative faith. Faith that is only a matter of words, one declaring, “I believe” at all the right and appropriate times, but fails to demonstrate itself by good fruit is useless. It is dead!

Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself. But someone may well say, “You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” You believe that God is one. You do well; the demons also believe, and shudder. But are you willing to recognize, you foolish fellow, that faith without works is useless?

James 2:17-21

The hypocrisy of performative service / ministry. The Pharisees, who were the primary antagonists during the earthly ministry of Jesus Christ, tithed from their mint and dill. That kind of meticulous attention to detail looked impressive to most, but not in the eyes of our Lord. He sharply rebuked those hypocritical spiritual leaders.

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier provisions of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness; but these are the things you should have done without neglecting the others. You blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel!”

Matthew 23:23-24

The hypocrisy of performative displays. Jesus cautioned His followers, that believers must not be like the hypocrites! Through their voices, gestures, and wordiness, they would seek to draw attention for themselves. The hypocritical heart is attention seeking, dissatisfied with doing things away from eyes, in contrast to silent, unrecognized acts of prayer, worship, service, or ministry.

“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.”

Matthew 6:5-6

The hypocrisy of performative judgement / disgust.

“Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”

Matthew 7:1-5

The hypocrisy of performative generosity. Christ’s New Testament Church of committed believers has generally been marked by generosity, even providing for those who had various needs, as recorded in the book of Acts, as well as in the Epistles. Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5:1-11) sold a piece of property and secretly held back some of the profits, but gave the appearance of donating all the proceeds to the church’s on-going ministry.

“Why is it that you have conceived this deed in your heart? You have not lied to men but to God.”

Acts 5:5 – (Peter to Ananias)

“Why is it that you have agreed together to put the Spirit of the Lord to the test? Behold, the feet of those who have buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out as well.”

Acts 5:9-10 – (Peter to Sapphira)

The hypocrisy of performative speech /speaking. As the book of James reminds us, the tongue can be a restless, relentless evil that’s full of deadly poison. Too often, words are used to defame someone, disguise one’s true feelings, speak lies, break hearts, and even distort God’s Word (the Truth) for one’s own agenda or benefit.

If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless.

James 1:26-27

See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell. For every species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human race. But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. Does a fountain send out from the same opening both fresh and bitter water? Can a fig tree, my brethren, produce olives, or a vine produce figs? Nor can salt water produce fresh.

James 3:5-12

Undoubtedly there exists internal and spiritual causes that serve to support the hypocrite. Personal insecurities, shame, fear, guilt, pride, as well as desires for social approval and / or cultural acceptance ultimately top the list. Thus, hypocrisy erodes trust and destroys one’s credibility.

While the Bible does not provide a dictionary definition of hypocrisy, one example after another exposes the spiritual performances that deceive others and, more dangerously, one’s own self. Behind every outward display lies a heart either far from God or moving in that direction. Christ’s warnings are not for a staged presentation, but are urgent and extremely relevant for today’s Church. May we be a people whose worship, faith, service, and speech are sincere, not theatrical performances of an excellent masked actor, but true reflections of one’s own heart and mind that’s being transformed by God’s mercy and grace.

Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor; not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer, contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality.

Romans 12:9-13

His & Yours, Pastor Frank

“FAITH OVER FEAR”

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

In a world increasingly characterized by uncertainties, anxieties from numerous sources, and persistent fears such as global pandemics, economic instability, political corruption, media deception, general turmoil stirred by social media, moral / ethical compromise, and individual / personal challenges, the timeless Biblical concept / principle of “FAITH OVER FEAR” stands as a beacon of strength for us as believers. This phrase should become a rallying cry for each and every faithful follower of Jesus Christ – not just in 2026, but as a deeply embedded lifestyle.

Genuine faith in our sovereign Lord, the God of all the known and unknown throughout the entire creation / universe, is a divinely appointed antidote to the potentially paralyzing grip of human fear. But what does “FAITH OVER FEAR” actually mean from an exclusive biblical perspective? It must rise above, being far more than some catchy promotion slogan or motivational cliché. At its core, this basic biblically based principle represents a fundamental choice that every believer must make daily … an intentional / deliberate decision to trust the Lord God’s character, His promises, and the absolute truth of His providence … rather than surrendering to the worries, concerns / apprehensions, and fears that seek to engage, even controlling, our minds and hearts.

FAITH OVER FEAR requires an anchoring of one’s soul in the unchanging, immutable Truth found only in the Word of God rather than the shifting circumstances and experiences of one’s life. It means believing that Jesus Christ is exactly who and what He says He is … that He will do and accomplish all He has promised to do, and that His purposes for our lives are not only good, but perfect, even when we don’t fully understand them. This means choosing to walk in faithful obedience to God’s Word, the Lord’s callings, and the direction / leadership of His Holy Spirit even when every natural instinct screams at us to shrink back in fear (retreat), hide, or surrender in some mental / emotional compromise.

The Apostle Paul beautifully captures this tension that all believers routinely deal with while encouraging Pastor Timothy to be steadfast and fulfill his ministry / calling / life-purpose in 2 Timothy 1:7!

For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.

This verse reveals that paralyzing fear, as “a spirit of timidity,” can attempt to control, thwart, or even destroy divine purposes! This “spirit of timidity” obviously does not originate from God, as the biblical text clearly states, but instead, the Lord has properly equipped believers with power (dunamis in Greek, from which we get “dynamite”), love (agape, the self-sacrificing, benevolent love that comes from God – 1 John 4:19), and a sound mind (sophronismos, meaning self-discipline / control and sound / good judgment)! These divine endowments purposefully enable believers to continually face our life challenges with spiritual courage and discernment that’s rooted in faith rather than cowering in fear.

Throughout the Scriptures, recurring commands like “Fear not” or “Do not be afraid” appear at least 365 times. (Side note — one for every day of the year, as if God knew we would definitely need this daily reminder). This repetition is not coincidental, but directly reflects God’s understanding of our human nature / weaknesses, and His desire for His children to live an abundant life (John 10:10) in the framework of His freedom with genuine faith, rather than being captivated by one’s worldly fears. Authentic faith in the Lord is designed to overcome any “spirit of timidity!”

Biblical faith is far more than intellectual assent to certain propositions or wishful thinking about particular desired goals / outcomes / objectives. The writer of Hebrews provides us with the description of God-centered / Christ-centered / Word-centered / Truth-centered faith that some might deem as a little confusing.

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the men of old gained approval.

Hebrews 11:1-2

The Greek word for “assurance” (hypostasis) carries the meaning of “confidence” — genuine biblical faith provides reality / substance. Then the word for “conviction” (elenchos) means “evidence” or “proof” — faith provides convincing proof of realities one cannot yet see / experience in the framework of our human understanding. This is exactly how the “men of old gained approval” as exemplified in the balance of Chapter 11.

As one reads through that text, notice this kind of faith is not passive or abstract. It is active, dynamic, and transformative. It is a confident trust (biblical hope) in God that produces action, obedience, and much perseverance – even in the face of overwhelming odds and obvious obstacles. Those mentioned in this “Hall of Faith” clearly demonstrate, by their obedient actions, that biblical faith always results in courageous action, rather than the paralysis of human fears.

Furthermore, biblical faith is not faith in faith itself — not something stirred up from the human spirit (as often being taught by many ministers in many modern-day churches). No, it’s faith in God Himself and His Truth – removed and separated from the best efforts, wisdom and thinking of any human being! This single, proper, object of one’s faith holds all the power and determines faith’s effectiveness. The woman with the issue of blood (Matthew 9, Mark 5, Luke 8) had been suffering from a hemorrhage of some 12 years and had spent all her money seeking healing from the doctors. This ailment deemed her socially and spiritually “unclean” and forced her into isolation. Nonetheless, her persistent, single-minded faith in Jesus Christ caused her, in unwavering belief, to reach out and touch His garment. Notice her thoughts as recorded in Mark 5:28 . . .

“If I just touch His garment, I will get well”

Her belief was not based on anything other than the known works and reputation of Jesus Christ! One does not overcome fear by mustering up more positive thinking or by believing harder in our own abilities. No, fear is overcome by knowing God / Truth more deeply and trusting Christ more fully and completely!

As one matures spiritually, growing in a better / fuller understanding of our Lord’s nature / character, His sovereignty, love, power, and faithfulness towards those who believe, one’s genuine faith increases, and the fears that creep in, making us timid and holding us back, will continually weaken! Ultimately, faith-living becomes the lifestyle of every believer as one trusts the Lord more and more each and every day of our lives. Therefore, Christ’s genuine followers come to comprehend and actively experience Hebrews 11:6!

And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him.

Help us Lord Jesus, may we be / become Your men and women of genuine biblical faith that will indeed triumph over all our worldly, cultural, religious, relational, situational / circumstantial, family, and personal fears!

We can do this … FAITH OVER FEAR … let’s work on it together by encouraging one another to actually LIVE OUR FAITH OUT LOUD!

His & Yours, because of G.R.A.C.E. (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense),

Pastor Frank

ADVENT/CHRISTMAS 2025 – CHOICES

Posted on February 12, 2026May 4, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

As we enter this Advent season, I find myself reflecting on a simple yet profound truth: Christmas doesn’t just happen — we choose how we will celebrate it. The choices each of us make in these upcoming weeks will reveal exactly what one truly treasures. As a child growing up, even though raised in a faithful Christian home, I never really thought about anything other than the presents I’d receive. Certainly, there was always the shared understanding of Christ’s birth, but it seems we always chose the exact same patterns year after year.

I often wonder if you’ve also felt the strange, but obvious tension that builds starting about Thanksgiving and invading December. The world around us accelerates into a frenzy of activity: shopping lists grow longer, social calendars fill to overflowing, decorations seem to demand serious attention, and everywhere we may turn, someone is trying to sell a neat experience, a distinct product, or some special feeling(s).

Meanwhile, at the heart of it all, a quiet voice whispers the most revolutionary announcement in human history: “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” (See John 1:14)

The question before each of us is not whether we will be busy this Christmas season — we will be! However, the question that should be asked is: What will all our busyness actually mean or serve?

For sure, I’m not suggesting that we abandon all our celebrations or family traditions. There is most likely nothing inherently wrong with festive meals, thoughtful gifts, or beautifully decorated homes. But I am asking us to examine our hearts and even our motives this Christmas season.

When we crawl into bed, most likely exhausted on the night of December 25, will we have encountered Christ our Lord, or merely survived another holiday? Will we have worshiped the Savior, or simply participated in cultural rituals that attempt to bear His Holy Name?

Consider how easily our focus shifts. We plan elaborate meals but neglect the very Bread of Life. We stress over finding the perfect gifts while forgetting that God gave us the best Gift ever given, never before offered, or even deserved! Some of our homes are filled with guests, friends, family and glitter, but little room left for the One whose visit to earth began by being laid in a very humble feed trough.

We sing carols about His birth but rarely pause to marvel at this staggering reality: the Creator of the entire universe entered His creation as an infant. The One who declared light to be light came as the true light to shine in a world of darkness! (See Genesis 1:3, Isaiah 9:2, John 1:4, 9)

This Christmas, each and every one of us will make choices – perhaps even deliberate, counter-cultural choices. As believers, will we choose to create space for silence and reflection in a season that demands noise and activity? We must choose to prioritize worship and spiritual gatherings — even when family obligations, traditions, and travel plans actively compete for our time. Will believers choose to serve others as Christ did (See Mark 10:45), actively remembering the example of Jesus Himself? Will we choose to engage in conversation about the Lord’s incarnation, not just enthusiastically sharing about our special holiday plans?

These choices may, most likely will, cost us something. They may even mean disappointing others’ expectations. It may require us to say “no” to good things in order to say “yes” to better things. Perhaps we will be judged as less festive by our world’s standards, or unenthusiastic about Christmas trees, decorations, and lights or the season’s overplayed pop songs.

Here is what I know: the Messiah Who came to us through a miraculous, one-of-a-kind birth still shows up for us today—in His Word, through the presence of His Holy Spirit, in the gatherings and fellowship of His people, and in quieter moments of reflection and meditation when we turn our hearts, thoughts, and activities toward Him. He is not forcing us to draw near – no, He is simply offering Himself as the primary focus! After all, it is CHRISTMAS, and He is undoubtedly worthy of our wholehearted, undistracted devotion and sacrificial praise.

Therefore, my fellow, faithful servants of Jesus Christ, make some intentional choices! Choose Christ over the crazy chaos. Choose worship over senseless worry. Choose the eternal over the temporal. Choose to celebrate the first coming of our Savior and King in the sincere reverence of Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love that has been so graciously and lavishly poured out upon us! (See Ephesians 1:7-8)

The world will have its Christmas. Let us have ours — centered on the One who was, and is, and is to come!

Please consider these words, perhaps some implementation, and have a great Christmas!

-PF

PASTOR APPRECIATION MONTH/DAY

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

As many of you may know, October has been designated as Pastor Appreciation month with the second Sunday of October being the official day. Many have asked me about this, and this year I regretfully caused a little conflict with our great AWANA ministry and leaders concerning this concept, which I will explain below.

This whole thing is a man-made, but not necessarily wrong scripturally, providing an opportunity to honor pastors and clergy.

The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching.

1 Timothy 5:17

PAM/D was originally started by Dr, London, in cooperation with James Dobson (his Nazarene Pastor cousin) and “Focus On The Family” some time ago. However, in 1992, guess who got on board? Hallmark Cards! Surprise, Surprise! Greater than 65% of American churches now use this designated Sunday, the second Sunday of October, to honor their Pastors and sometimes ministerial staff, this year occurring on October 12.

In my former church, Westheimer Baptist (which became First Baptist West Houston), I was the Associate Pastor, The Minister Of Discipleship & Evangelism, and later became the pastor charged with Relocation & Development. Our Sr. Pastor loved the idea of this recognition and a Sunday being set aside for Pastor Appreciation Day. He made sure it happened in our church . . . and I was responsible to make sure it happened at the standard he expected . . . which it did while I served that church. The last one I organized in October of 1984 provided a brand-new Oldsmobile 98 for him to drive.

Needless to say, that experience, along with many other ones at Westheimer Baptist, taught me a lot of lessons . . . some really good – and many to avoid! While I am deeply grateful for my opportunity to serve that church ministry and the Senior Pastor, whom I truly loved and honored, I had to resign when I could no longer in good conscience / right spirit / with integrity to my Lord and that Body of Christ, faithfully submit to him in genuine obedience, under his authority.

Now, onto the issue at hand. Once again, there is nothing doctrinally or biblically wrong with Pastor Appreciation Day or Month. Nonetheless, I personally am not going to promote it, or cause it to happen at WOF. I believe that’s extremely self-serving and egotistical, perhaps even arrogant to elevate myself in such a manner. Biblical pastors are servant leaders, not men that demand a pedestal or recognition! In addition, with that consideration, I’m not allowing our paid support staff or ministry staff, those whom I serve with or those under my charge, to promote Pastor Appreciation Day / Month because it might appear that it is coming from me, and it has not been authorized or agreed upon / approved by our church Elders.

“For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

Luke 14:11 & Matthew 23:12

If you have been foolish in exalting yourself or if you have plotted evil, put your hand on your mouth.

Proverbs 30:32

The Lord God has always been opposed to proud according to James 4:6!

In the past, on two different occasions I have spoken with our Elders concerning PAD/M, because, if it is something that should be considered and accomplished, then we should actively endorse and embrace it without me, Pastor Jacob, or Tammy being the catalyst that stirs the pot or makes it happen. Therefore, if the Elders were to approve of the concept for the future ministry of WOF and its ministers, then it would be authorized by them and the event / day / month itself could / should realistically be a grassroots occasion birthed from the heart of the Lord’s people . . . not me pushing it! You’ve probably all heard me tell the story about this pastor from the late 1800’s who went to the train station every morning to watch the trains simply because that’s the only thing he knew of that moved without him having to push it!

In October 2020, I was presented with an awesome shield with meaningful words of gratitude and scripture displayed on it which is proudly exhibited in my office. What a blessing! When I turned 70, I was unexpectedly honored once again with a fabulous briefcase as a nice gift from our Deacons. Recently, Van and Nancy (who know me pretty well) gave me an incredible, very unique desk pen that shares a prominent place on my desk, right beside another pen set that was given to given me some time ago, along with one presented by my former church on “Staff Appreciation Day” 1984. This year someone got me a PAD/M card that about 15 people or so from our church signed and wrote encouraging notes in, which I truly prize. In addition, the AWANA kids gave me a big card with some notes attached. THANK YOU!

So, one might ask, “Where do we go from this point forward?” Good question! Is PAD/M wrong or evil? Certainly not – if framed in the right spiritual perspective. Is it biblical? Maybe, though not clearly identified as an essential in anyway whatsoever. Therein lies my (mental, emotional and spiritual) struggle. At WOF, everything we set out to accomplish like Games & Treats, Go Texan Day, our July 4^th Event and Thanksgiving Luncheon, etc. is currently, or has been previously, approved (perhaps many, many years ago) and sanctioned by our Elders. While I am an Elder, also serving in the capacity the Lead Pastor of WOF, once again, as previously stated, I am not going to force the concept of PAD/M upon our leadership or our congregation, even though I believe it may / could have some intrinsic value. However, needless to say, it should not be a half-hearted attempt at something that “has to been done” or done by rote “just because!”

As a proper example, we publicly recognized Pastor Jacob, during a Sunday morning worship service on his 10^th anniversary of serving / ministering at WOF. He didn’t seek this recognition, nor imply it was due him. Nevertheless, I was the driving force that made that occasion happen because I longed to honor him and express my gratitude by providing a nice present for him to display, along with, in my opinion, a substantial monetary gift.

Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it.

Proverbs 3:27

Render to all what is due them: tax to whom tax is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honor to whom honor.

Romans 13:7

The deepest desire I have in writing this article is to share my thoughts on this subject, and help our church fully understand the position I hold, while hoping to move forward into the future with clarity. One certainly does not have to agree with me, because this is not a doctrinal issue in my opinion; however, I desire unity in our church and always hope to disarm anything that causes confusion or division / discord. I would also truly appreciate any feedback or considerations you may have to offer on this topic.

His & Yours because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense), PF

ABOMINATION

Posted on February 12, 2026February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

This biblical word, which occurs at least 170 times in the scriptures, is not familiar to many New Testament believers, primarily because it is mainly associated with the event known as “the abomination of desolation” during the last days tribulation period (Daniel 11:31, Matthew 24:15, Mark 13:14). However, it has substantial and significant use for those who desire to more fully understand the very nature of our God and our Savior, Christ Jesus.

The dictionary definition of “abomination,” which is typically a noun, reads, “something that causes disgust or hatred,” and was common terminology during the 1800s. Biblically speaking, “abomination” is a powerful term, generally referring to something that is absolutely and unequivocally detestable, and / or profoundly contrary to God’s Holiness. This encompasses willfully ignoring His instructions, participating in idolatry, improper worship, acts of immorality, unethical behavior, and dishonesty. Spiritually and fundamentally “abomination” refers to any practice or attitude that distances individuals from God’s desired purposes and plans, which includes both His Truth and His Love, accompanied by His Holiness, Righteousness and Justice.

There are six things which the Lord hates, yes, seven which are an abomination (Hebrew – ‎tow`ebah; repulsive, even dangerous and destructive, abhorrent) to Him: 1) haughty eyes, 2) a lying tongue, 3) and hands that shed innocent blood, 4) a heart that devises wicked plans, 5) feet that run rapidly to evil, 6) a false witness who utters lies, 7) and one who spreads strife among brothers.

Proverbs 6:16-19

Be assured, all 7 fall into the same category of being an “abomination” to our Lord, and if that’s the case exactly where do we stand?

HAUGHTY EYES – displaying a proud look, being unkind and irreverent toward others! See Psalm 101:5, Proverbs 21:4, 30:13

A LYING TONGUE – speaking falsehood, which implies a wrong motive. Vanity, improper ambition, and even cowardice serve as the generators and patrons of lies. A pure heart has no motive for falsehood; however, sadly, there exist social pressures that work to loosen the mind and tongue… such as expectations, and the somewhat confused human need for acceptance and approval!

See Psalm 31:18, 120:2, Proverbs 12:22, Ephesians 4:25

HANDS THAT SHED INNOCENT BLOOD – heartless cruelty. A lack of understanding for God’s created creatures … inflicting needless pain, incivility, and death upon any human, as well as other life forms!

See Isaiah 1:15, 59:7, Proverbs 28:17, Exodus 20:13

A HEART THAT DEVISES WICKED PLANS – this is vicious scheming. This is birthed from pagan concepts and wicked thoughts / imaginations. These individuals are continuously inventing some form of evil behavior, usually with the intent of damaging others, for satisfying some demented dream, or to fulfill some delusional pleasures! See Genesis 6:5, Proverbs 24:2

FEET THAT RUN RAPIDLY TO EVIL – an eagerness to participate in mischievous sinful / wicked activities / behavior. These have an unrestrained passion / vigilance and a lust to participate in questionable, improper and / or immoral activities.

See Proverbs 1:15-16, Isaiah 59:7, Romans 3:10-18

A FALSE WITNESS WHO UTTERS LIES – a slanderer. Socially attempting to destroy another’s reputation, credibility, or successful good / positive achievements. This ungodly behavior may be motivated by jealousy, a lack of purpose or acceptance, poor training, and / or a desire for some type of social recognition!

See Proverbs 12:17-18, 19:5, 19:9, 21:28, Matthew 15:19

ONE WHO SPREADS STRIFE (sows discord) AMONG BROTHERS – here lies wicked, evil intentions. Someone who intentionally works to damage, disrupt, destroy, and / or sever relationships, friendships, and / or even quality organizations (like Christ’s True / Believing Church)!

See Proverbs 6:14-15, 16:28, 22:10, 26:20, 2 Timothy 2:23, James 3:6, 14-16

All of these things are an “abomination” to God, who desires exactly the opposite for His people . . . wanting harmony, peace, unity, love and truth to prevail among those of the kingdom even while stationed in this world. The moral hideousness of the world is obvious where these seven evils abound. However, the righteousness and holiness of our Lord clearly emerges when one considers His displeasure / hatred for these things which are 100% foreign to the nature and character of the ONE! TRUE! LIVING GOD!

While we live in a world set on “abomination,” it is not our responsibility to rid the world of these evils except through the spreading of the Gospel. Therefore, we should individually and corporately, as Christ’s Church body, consider these behaviors totally, unquestionably, and absolutely reprehensible – never to be found or tolerated among us!

“For the devious are an abomination to the Lord; But He is intimate with the upright. The curse of the Lord is on the house of the wicked, but He blesses the dwelling of the righteous.”

Proverbs 3:32-33

Meditate on His Word, day and night and you’ll find an unbelievable escape and freedom from the mindset of those who are perishing. (see 1 Corinthians 1:18-19)

His & Yours, because of G R A C E(God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)

Pastor Frank

“WHY FUSION”

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

Technically speaking, the definition of FUSION is the process where two atomic nuclei combine to form a single, heavier nucleus, releasing enormous amounts of energy, which is nuclear fusion. However, the term FUSION has taken on some other meanings, generally referring to a merging or blending of different elements, like in “fusion cuisine” that combines different ethnic foods, or the union or uniting of political concepts, interest groups, or parties.

We named our West Oaks Fellowship monthly newsletter “FUSION” many years ago from the concepts of a merger or blending, because that concept applies to so many areas of our church and a believer’s spiritual life. While the word “FUSION” doesn’t appear in the biblical text, the word fuse is used in a few English translations, referring to things being joined together or united as used by Darby in Job 41:23. Nonetheless, the concept of spiritual union or unions, unity, and oneness, is a central and important biblical concept / theme that’s often emphasized in numerous contexts throughout the scriptures.

Oneness with our Lord and Father God is a supernatural “FUSION” that Christ Himself prayed for in John 17:20-21 in His High Priestly prayer, as well as for all of us as His followers. Perhaps our oneness should somehow mirror the perfect harmony and unification of the Trinity (God the Father, God the Son, and God, the Holy Spirit). Needless to say, in this process we become more and more like Him!
We “abide” in Christ Jesus according to John 15:1-6. This “FUSION” is essential if one becomes, or hopes to become, a fruit-bearing believer. According to our Lord’s teaching, this intimate connection / joining / uniting of the “TRUE VINE” and branches is the only possible process by which Christians can bear fruit!
The Body of Christ, His CHURCH, according to 1 Corinthians 12:12–13, is a very unique “FUSION!” All true believers, regardless of their background, ethnicity, or language, are all spiritually baptized by God’s one Holy Spirit into one universal church body. This merging of diverse members into one spiritually-joined church body illustrates the unity, as well as the interdependence of believers in Christ.
The prophecy of Jeremiah 31:33 presents a beautiful futuristic “FUSION!” “But this is the covenant which I will make with the house of Israel after those days,” declares the Lord, “I will put My law within them and on their heart I will write it; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. “They will not teach again, each man his neighbor and each man his brother, saying, ‘Know the Lord,’ for they will all know Me, from the least of them to the greatest of them,” declares the Lord, “for I will forgive their iniquity, and their sin I will remember no more.”

In the realm of our bible-based Christian faith, genuine “FUSION” must be absolutely confined to the things / elements of TRUTH! There are many efforts to fuse pagan concepts with the things of the ONE TRUE GOD AND HIS WORD! However, spiritual “FUSION“ emphasizes a profound, transformative, experience of divine nature and character that highlights the powerful interconnecting of believers with the Lord God. This relationship is enjoined by His gracious salvation and then with one another in His Church Body through our shared experiences, ultimately seeking the same purposes in our lives of bringing glory and honor in this life to JESUS CHRIST!

So that’s why we have “FUSION!”

His & Yours, because of G.R.A.C.E. (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense),

BABY BOOMERS

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

Individuals born between 1946 and 1964, during the post-World War II period are classified as the “Baby Boomers.” During this 28 year period there was a significant increase in birth rates, which resulted in a large generation that has profoundly impacted both culture, society and Christ’s Church. The boom was driven by a combination of several factors, including improved economic conditions, declining mortality rates, and changing social norms, which were not unique to the USA.

HERE ARE SOME FACTS:

The average baby boomer will live to be 84+ years old, with many living much longer.
In the United States Of America, baby boomers control 53% of the wealth.
The average church goer in America is age 60. (See Proverbs 16:31)
Boomers account for 36% of the people present in American churches on Sunday, Gen X is 24%, and the Millennials 19%.

The Baby Boomers have also significantly impacted the ministry and the function of churches in the United States, both positively and negatively, due to their influence, their large numbers, and often changing / shifting preferences and beliefs.

Baby Boomers, generally speaking, desire specific styles / types of music, which sometimes has led to conflict and division within congregations.

Too often, a “What Have You Done For Me Lately?” mentality emerges as the Boomers may focus in on their own needs and preferences, which ultimately can lead to a more consumer-driven approach to church participation, attendance, and financial support. Thus the evolution of the mega-church, declining support for mainline denominational congregations, and the development of smaller churches like WOF where members / participants interact regularly and are viewed as family. Only 10% of America’s 331,000 church congregations have more than 300 members, with most having less than 100. However, 50% of those attending religious services regularly go to the 33,000 large churches where a lesser percentage of the congregation actually serve regularly, in particular, Baby Boomers. The big flashy church with a well known lead pastor is certainly in style. However, 90% of American congregations are small, and the boomers are often finding opportunity to serve on a consistent basis. FYI – 60% of American Church Pastors are currently boomers.

Needless to say, one potential problem that churches will continually face is the declining baby boomer population as they grow progressively older and perhaps face physical limitations.

One thing that should be on every boomer’s mind is the great opportunities they are afforded due to their life experience, additional resources, and available time. While our culture drifts towards exalting young leadership, the fact is that too many Baby Boomers are shelved in today’s church and ministries. Some reasons for that issue is that too often, boomers retire from more than just their profession. Another is that often times, as these individuals grow older, they dropout due to disillusionment, hurts, confusion, and sometimes substitute any number of other activities to replace their participation in ministry and worship. However it’s a proven statistic that the baby boomer generation grows more spiritually and becomes more interested in that realm of life as they grow older. That may have to do with the inevitability of death or just after many various life experiences (good and bad, blessings or difficulties). The boomers surely need church and the church undoubtedly needs them!

Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in perseverance. Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.

Titus 2:2-5

Obviously, there is no question about the need of every church ministry to have younger adults participating and serving; however, is there a great amount of potential, wisdom, knowledge, and life-experience not being tapped because the Baby Boomers aren’t being asked to serve or they aren’t willing to serve? I certainly hope that’s not true at WOF. So if you are a boomer, please step up and be used by our Lord to help the ministry and your younger brothers and sisters in Christ.

As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God. Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God; whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies; so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.

1 Peter 4:10-11

Unless for some reason a person is physically unable to serve, there is a place … should be a place for each and everyone to faithfully serve in Christ’s New Testament Church!

But now there are many members, but one body. And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; or again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.”

1 Corinthians 12:20-21

1 Corinthians 12:27

Now you are Christ’s body, and individually members of it.

Please, please never forget that!

Right now (later is too late), I’m officially inviting all our “Baby Boomers” to step up along with all other adults, and even some of our youth who should be serving.

We need to gear up and there are plenty of places that need your help, starting with our AWANA Kid’s Club which is currently being completely overhauled, our Children’s ministry which is bringing in new curriculum for teaching and training our awesome kids, and our youth ministry which could use some additional assistance as well. If not now, when?

His & Yours always, because of GRACE

(God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)

Pastor Frank