As we enter this Advent season, I find myself reflecting on a simple yet profound truth: Christmas doesn’t just happen — we choose how we will celebrate it. The choices each of us make in these upcoming weeks will reveal exactly what one truly treasures. As a child growing up, even though raised in a faithful Christian home, I never really thought about anything other than the presents I’d receive. Certainly, there was always the shared understanding of Christ’s birth, but it seems we always chose the exact same patterns year after year.
I often wonder if you’ve also felt the strange, but obvious tension that builds starting about Thanksgiving and invading December. The world around us accelerates into a frenzy of activity: shopping lists grow longer, social calendars fill to overflowing, decorations seem to demand serious attention, and everywhere we may turn, someone is trying to sell a neat experience, a distinct product, or some special feeling(s).
Meanwhile, at the heart of it all, a quiet voice whispers the most revolutionary announcement in human history: “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” (See John 1:14)
The question before each of us is not whether we will be busy this Christmas season — we will be! However, the question that should be asked is: What will all our busyness actually mean or serve?
For sure, I’m not suggesting that we abandon all our celebrations or family traditions. There is most likely nothing inherently wrong with festive meals, thoughtful gifts, or beautifully decorated homes. But I am asking us to examine our hearts and even our motives this Christmas season.
When we crawl into bed, most likely exhausted on the night of December 25, will we have encountered Christ our Lord, or merely survived another holiday? Will we have worshiped the Savior, or simply participated in cultural rituals that attempt to bear His Holy Name?
Consider how easily our focus shifts. We plan elaborate meals but neglect the very Bread of Life. We stress over finding the perfect gifts while forgetting that God gave us the best Gift ever given, never before offered, or even deserved! Some of our homes are filled with guests, friends, family and glitter, but little room left for the One whose visit to earth began by being laid in a very humble feed trough.
We sing carols about His birth but rarely pause to marvel at this staggering reality: the Creator of the entire universe entered His creation as an infant. The One who declared light to be light came as the true light to shine in a world of darkness! (See Genesis 1:3, Isaiah 9:2, John 1:4, 9)
This Christmas, each and every one of us will make choices – perhaps even deliberate, counter-cultural choices. As believers, will we choose to create space for silence and reflection in a season that demands noise and activity? We must choose to prioritize worship and spiritual gatherings — even when family obligations, traditions, and travel plans actively compete for our time. Will believers choose to serve others as Christ did (See Mark 10:45), actively remembering the example of Jesus Himself? Will we choose to engage in conversation about the Lord’s incarnation, not just enthusiastically sharing about our special holiday plans?
These choices may, most likely will, cost us something. They may even mean disappointing others’ expectations. It may require us to say “no” to good things in order to say “yes” to better things. Perhaps we will be judged as less festive by our world’s standards, or unenthusiastic about Christmas trees, decorations, and lights or the season’s overplayed pop songs.
Here is what I know: the Messiah Who came to us through a miraculous, one-of-a-kind birth still shows up for us today—in His Word, through the presence of His Holy Spirit, in the gatherings and fellowship of His people, and in quieter moments of reflection and meditation when we turn our hearts, thoughts, and activities toward Him. He is not forcing us to draw near – no, He is simply offering Himself as the primary focus! After all, it is CHRISTMAS, and He is undoubtedly worthy of our wholehearted, undistracted devotion and sacrificial praise.
Therefore, my fellow, faithful servants of Jesus Christ, make some intentional choices! Choose Christ over the crazy chaos. Choose worship over senseless worry. Choose the eternal over the temporal. Choose to celebrate the first coming of our Savior and King in the sincere reverence of Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love that has been so graciously and lavishly poured out upon us! (See Ephesians 1:7-8)
The world will have its Christmas. Let us have ours — centered on the One who was, and is, and is to come!
Please consider these words, perhaps some implementation, and have a great Christmas!
-PF
