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HYPOCRISY/HYPOCRITE

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

A simple definition of hypocrisy states: the practice of claiming to have certain moral standards or beliefs while one’s own behavior does not conform or actually align with those principles, which makes that individual a hypocrite. Other words may sometimes be used to describe this seemingly common condition like sanctimoniousness, pharisaism, and duplicity.

In ancient Greek theaters, a hypocrite was an actor—someone who wore a mask and stepped into a specific role, performing not as himself, but as another. It was a term used to describe a performer skilled in their craft. However, the word moved beyond the stage plays and came to describe anyone who pretended to be something they were not!

Most everyone has experienced levels of hypocrisy as a common occurrence within the framework of everyday life. We see it everywhere—from politicians to preachers, authority figures to common people, family members and friends to business associates and team members, those hailed as heroes and even exalted athletes and social leaders. Sadly, but honestly, most of us have been in that state at one point or another in our lives! Prevalent forms of obvious hypocrisy display themselves frequently, perhaps even habitually within our culture and society:

1. Personal / Social: A person who advocates for honesty but lies continually, sometimes even about insignificant or unimportant issues.

2. Political: Leaders proclaiming certain honorable values while engaging in corrupt actions, acting as if they are above the law or somehow exempt because of the powerful positions or offices they hold.

3. Behavioral: A person criticizing others’ actions or words, like critiquing someone’s tardiness while they are known for showing up consistently late.

4. Religious: Performing outward acts of devotion while having a selfish, ungodly, unethical or immoral private life.

In the Bible, we find considerable attention given to hypocrites and their hypocrisy. Memorably, Jesus Christ denounced those who outwardly appeared to be highly religious but were inwardly filled with corruption, and woefully lacked spiritual qualities, while claiming to be experts in biblical law and its multiple applications in their society. A religious hypocrite may not be an actor on a literal stage, but puts on a show, on their own stage, before other humans and God Himself!

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness. So you, too, outwardly appear righteous to men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you build the tombs of the prophets and adorn the monuments of the righteous, and say, ‘If we had been living in the days of our fathers, we would not have been partners with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ So you testify against yourselves, that you are sons of those who murdered the prophets. Fill up, then, the measure of the guilt of your fathers. You serpents, you brood of vipers, how will you escape the sentence of hell?”

Matthew 23:27-33

The scriptures teach us to think about hypocrisy and hypocrites in several different ways, each clearly demonstrating what it may look like (appearance) or sound like (activity). The warning is articulated so all believers can be alert and identify the duping methods of the hypocrite! (Sometimes they even can fool themselves into thinking / believing they are what they claim to be.) If unrecognized and allowed to continue, this poses a potential devastating internal spiritual, as well as eternal danger! Remember the upsetting words of our Lord spoken to the exorcist and miracle workers in Matthew 7:23 – “And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; DEPART FROM ME, YOU WHO PRACTICE LAWLESSNESS.”

Consider:

The hypocrisy of performative worship. While we worship our Lord outwardly, He desires our hearts and minds to be engaged as well or one’s worship becomes meaningless and shallow. A hypocrite goes through the motions, doing and saying the right things, while his heart is actually distant from Him.

Then the Lord said, “Because this people draw near with their words and honor Me with their lip service, but they remove their hearts far from Me, and their reverence for Me consists of tradition learned by rote, therefore behold, I will once again deal marvelously with this people, wondrously marvelous; And the wisdom of their wise men will perish, and the discernment of their discerning men will be concealed.”

Isaiah 29:13-14

The hypocrisy of performative faith. Faith that is only a matter of words, one declaring, “I believe” at all the right and appropriate times, but fails to demonstrate itself by good fruit is useless. It is dead!

Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself. But someone may well say, “You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” You believe that God is one. You do well; the demons also believe, and shudder. But are you willing to recognize, you foolish fellow, that faith without works is useless?

James 2:17-21

The hypocrisy of performative service / ministry. The Pharisees, who were the primary antagonists during the earthly ministry of Jesus Christ, tithed from their mint and dill. That kind of meticulous attention to detail looked impressive to most, but not in the eyes of our Lord. He sharply rebuked those hypocritical spiritual leaders.

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier provisions of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness; but these are the things you should have done without neglecting the others. You blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel!”

Matthew 23:23-24

The hypocrisy of performative displays. Jesus cautioned His followers, that believers must not be like the hypocrites! Through their voices, gestures, and wordiness, they would seek to draw attention for themselves. The hypocritical heart is attention seeking, dissatisfied with doing things away from eyes, in contrast to silent, unrecognized acts of prayer, worship, service, or ministry.

“When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.”

Matthew 6:5-6

The hypocrisy of performative judgement / disgust.

“Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”

Matthew 7:1-5

The hypocrisy of performative generosity. Christ’s New Testament Church of committed believers has generally been marked by generosity, even providing for those who had various needs, as recorded in the book of Acts, as well as in the Epistles. Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5:1-11) sold a piece of property and secretly held back some of the profits, but gave the appearance of donating all the proceeds to the church’s on-going ministry.

“Why is it that you have conceived this deed in your heart? You have not lied to men but to God.”

Acts 5:5 – (Peter to Ananias)

“Why is it that you have agreed together to put the Spirit of the Lord to the test? Behold, the feet of those who have buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out as well.”

Acts 5:9-10 – (Peter to Sapphira)

The hypocrisy of performative speech /speaking. As the book of James reminds us, the tongue can be a restless, relentless evil that’s full of deadly poison. Too often, words are used to defame someone, disguise one’s true feelings, speak lies, break hearts, and even distort God’s Word (the Truth) for one’s own agenda or benefit.

If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless.

James 1:26-27

See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell. For every species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human race. But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. Does a fountain send out from the same opening both fresh and bitter water? Can a fig tree, my brethren, produce olives, or a vine produce figs? Nor can salt water produce fresh.

James 3:5-12

Undoubtedly there exists internal and spiritual causes that serve to support the hypocrite. Personal insecurities, shame, fear, guilt, pride, as well as desires for social approval and / or cultural acceptance ultimately top the list. Thus, hypocrisy erodes trust and destroys one’s credibility.

While the Bible does not provide a dictionary definition of hypocrisy, one example after another exposes the spiritual performances that deceive others and, more dangerously, one’s own self. Behind every outward display lies a heart either far from God or moving in that direction. Christ’s warnings are not for a staged presentation, but are urgent and extremely relevant for today’s Church. May we be a people whose worship, faith, service, and speech are sincere, not theatrical performances of an excellent masked actor, but true reflections of one’s own heart and mind that’s being transformed by God’s mercy and grace.

Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor; not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer, contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality.

Romans 12:9-13

His & Yours, Pastor Frank

PASTOR APPRECIATION MONTH/DAY

Posted on February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

As many of you may know, October has been designated as Pastor Appreciation month with the second Sunday of October being the official day. Many have asked me about this, and this year I regretfully caused a little conflict with our great AWANA ministry and leaders concerning this concept, which I will explain below.

This whole thing is a man-made, but not necessarily wrong scripturally, providing an opportunity to honor pastors and clergy.

The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching.

1 Timothy 5:17

PAM/D was originally started by Dr, London, in cooperation with James Dobson (his Nazarene Pastor cousin) and “Focus On The Family” some time ago. However, in 1992, guess who got on board? Hallmark Cards! Surprise, Surprise! Greater than 65% of American churches now use this designated Sunday, the second Sunday of October, to honor their Pastors and sometimes ministerial staff, this year occurring on October 12.

In my former church, Westheimer Baptist (which became First Baptist West Houston), I was the Associate Pastor, The Minister Of Discipleship & Evangelism, and later became the pastor charged with Relocation & Development. Our Sr. Pastor loved the idea of this recognition and a Sunday being set aside for Pastor Appreciation Day. He made sure it happened in our church . . . and I was responsible to make sure it happened at the standard he expected . . . which it did while I served that church. The last one I organized in October of 1984 provided a brand-new Oldsmobile 98 for him to drive.

Needless to say, that experience, along with many other ones at Westheimer Baptist, taught me a lot of lessons . . . some really good – and many to avoid! While I am deeply grateful for my opportunity to serve that church ministry and the Senior Pastor, whom I truly loved and honored, I had to resign when I could no longer in good conscience / right spirit / with integrity to my Lord and that Body of Christ, faithfully submit to him in genuine obedience, under his authority.

Now, onto the issue at hand. Once again, there is nothing doctrinally or biblically wrong with Pastor Appreciation Day or Month. Nonetheless, I personally am not going to promote it, or cause it to happen at WOF. I believe that’s extremely self-serving and egotistical, perhaps even arrogant to elevate myself in such a manner. Biblical pastors are servant leaders, not men that demand a pedestal or recognition! In addition, with that consideration, I’m not allowing our paid support staff or ministry staff, those whom I serve with or those under my charge, to promote Pastor Appreciation Day / Month because it might appear that it is coming from me, and it has not been authorized or agreed upon / approved by our church Elders.

“For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

Luke 14:11 & Matthew 23:12

If you have been foolish in exalting yourself or if you have plotted evil, put your hand on your mouth.

Proverbs 30:32

The Lord God has always been opposed to proud according to James 4:6!

In the past, on two different occasions I have spoken with our Elders concerning PAD/M, because, if it is something that should be considered and accomplished, then we should actively endorse and embrace it without me, Pastor Jacob, or Tammy being the catalyst that stirs the pot or makes it happen. Therefore, if the Elders were to approve of the concept for the future ministry of WOF and its ministers, then it would be authorized by them and the event / day / month itself could / should realistically be a grassroots occasion birthed from the heart of the Lord’s people . . . not me pushing it! You’ve probably all heard me tell the story about this pastor from the late 1800’s who went to the train station every morning to watch the trains simply because that’s the only thing he knew of that moved without him having to push it!

In October 2020, I was presented with an awesome shield with meaningful words of gratitude and scripture displayed on it which is proudly exhibited in my office. What a blessing! When I turned 70, I was unexpectedly honored once again with a fabulous briefcase as a nice gift from our Deacons. Recently, Van and Nancy (who know me pretty well) gave me an incredible, very unique desk pen that shares a prominent place on my desk, right beside another pen set that was given to given me some time ago, along with one presented by my former church on “Staff Appreciation Day” 1984. This year someone got me a PAD/M card that about 15 people or so from our church signed and wrote encouraging notes in, which I truly prize. In addition, the AWANA kids gave me a big card with some notes attached. THANK YOU!

So, one might ask, “Where do we go from this point forward?” Good question! Is PAD/M wrong or evil? Certainly not – if framed in the right spiritual perspective. Is it biblical? Maybe, though not clearly identified as an essential in anyway whatsoever. Therein lies my (mental, emotional and spiritual) struggle. At WOF, everything we set out to accomplish like Games & Treats, Go Texan Day, our July 4^th Event and Thanksgiving Luncheon, etc. is currently, or has been previously, approved (perhaps many, many years ago) and sanctioned by our Elders. While I am an Elder, also serving in the capacity the Lead Pastor of WOF, once again, as previously stated, I am not going to force the concept of PAD/M upon our leadership or our congregation, even though I believe it may / could have some intrinsic value. However, needless to say, it should not be a half-hearted attempt at something that “has to been done” or done by rote “just because!”

As a proper example, we publicly recognized Pastor Jacob, during a Sunday morning worship service on his 10^th anniversary of serving / ministering at WOF. He didn’t seek this recognition, nor imply it was due him. Nevertheless, I was the driving force that made that occasion happen because I longed to honor him and express my gratitude by providing a nice present for him to display, along with, in my opinion, a substantial monetary gift.

Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it.

Proverbs 3:27

Render to all what is due them: tax to whom tax is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honor to whom honor.

Romans 13:7

The deepest desire I have in writing this article is to share my thoughts on this subject, and help our church fully understand the position I hold, while hoping to move forward into the future with clarity. One certainly does not have to agree with me, because this is not a doctrinal issue in my opinion; however, I desire unity in our church and always hope to disarm anything that causes confusion or division / discord. I would also truly appreciate any feedback or considerations you may have to offer on this topic.

His & Yours because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense), PF

ABOMINATION

Posted on February 12, 2026February 12, 2026 by West Oaks Fellowship

This biblical word, which occurs at least 170 times in the scriptures, is not familiar to many New Testament believers, primarily because it is mainly associated with the event known as “the abomination of desolation” during the last days tribulation period (Daniel 11:31, Matthew 24:15, Mark 13:14). However, it has substantial and significant use for those who desire to more fully understand the very nature of our God and our Savior, Christ Jesus.

The dictionary definition of “abomination,” which is typically a noun, reads, “something that causes disgust or hatred,” and was common terminology during the 1800s. Biblically speaking, “abomination” is a powerful term, generally referring to something that is absolutely and unequivocally detestable, and / or profoundly contrary to God’s Holiness. This encompasses willfully ignoring His instructions, participating in idolatry, improper worship, acts of immorality, unethical behavior, and dishonesty. Spiritually and fundamentally “abomination” refers to any practice or attitude that distances individuals from God’s desired purposes and plans, which includes both His Truth and His Love, accompanied by His Holiness, Righteousness and Justice.

There are six things which the Lord hates, yes, seven which are an abomination (Hebrew – ‎tow`ebah; repulsive, even dangerous and destructive, abhorrent) to Him: 1) haughty eyes, 2) a lying tongue, 3) and hands that shed innocent blood, 4) a heart that devises wicked plans, 5) feet that run rapidly to evil, 6) a false witness who utters lies, 7) and one who spreads strife among brothers.

Proverbs 6:16-19

Be assured, all 7 fall into the same category of being an “abomination” to our Lord, and if that’s the case exactly where do we stand?

HAUGHTY EYES – displaying a proud look, being unkind and irreverent toward others! See Psalm 101:5, Proverbs 21:4, 30:13

A LYING TONGUE – speaking falsehood, which implies a wrong motive. Vanity, improper ambition, and even cowardice serve as the generators and patrons of lies. A pure heart has no motive for falsehood; however, sadly, there exist social pressures that work to loosen the mind and tongue… such as expectations, and the somewhat confused human need for acceptance and approval!

See Psalm 31:18, 120:2, Proverbs 12:22, Ephesians 4:25

HANDS THAT SHED INNOCENT BLOOD – heartless cruelty. A lack of understanding for God’s created creatures … inflicting needless pain, incivility, and death upon any human, as well as other life forms!

See Isaiah 1:15, 59:7, Proverbs 28:17, Exodus 20:13

A HEART THAT DEVISES WICKED PLANS – this is vicious scheming. This is birthed from pagan concepts and wicked thoughts / imaginations. These individuals are continuously inventing some form of evil behavior, usually with the intent of damaging others, for satisfying some demented dream, or to fulfill some delusional pleasures! See Genesis 6:5, Proverbs 24:2

FEET THAT RUN RAPIDLY TO EVIL – an eagerness to participate in mischievous sinful / wicked activities / behavior. These have an unrestrained passion / vigilance and a lust to participate in questionable, improper and / or immoral activities.

See Proverbs 1:15-16, Isaiah 59:7, Romans 3:10-18

A FALSE WITNESS WHO UTTERS LIES – a slanderer. Socially attempting to destroy another’s reputation, credibility, or successful good / positive achievements. This ungodly behavior may be motivated by jealousy, a lack of purpose or acceptance, poor training, and / or a desire for some type of social recognition!

See Proverbs 12:17-18, 19:5, 19:9, 21:28, Matthew 15:19

ONE WHO SPREADS STRIFE (sows discord) AMONG BROTHERS – here lies wicked, evil intentions. Someone who intentionally works to damage, disrupt, destroy, and / or sever relationships, friendships, and / or even quality organizations (like Christ’s True / Believing Church)!

See Proverbs 6:14-15, 16:28, 22:10, 26:20, 2 Timothy 2:23, James 3:6, 14-16

All of these things are an “abomination” to God, who desires exactly the opposite for His people . . . wanting harmony, peace, unity, love and truth to prevail among those of the kingdom even while stationed in this world. The moral hideousness of the world is obvious where these seven evils abound. However, the righteousness and holiness of our Lord clearly emerges when one considers His displeasure / hatred for these things which are 100% foreign to the nature and character of the ONE! TRUE! LIVING GOD!

While we live in a world set on “abomination,” it is not our responsibility to rid the world of these evils except through the spreading of the Gospel. Therefore, we should individually and corporately, as Christ’s Church body, consider these behaviors totally, unquestionably, and absolutely reprehensible – never to be found or tolerated among us!

“For the devious are an abomination to the Lord; But He is intimate with the upright. The curse of the Lord is on the house of the wicked, but He blesses the dwelling of the righteous.”

Proverbs 3:32-33

Meditate on His Word, day and night and you’ll find an unbelievable escape and freedom from the mindset of those who are perishing. (see 1 Corinthians 1:18-19)

His & Yours, because of G R A C E(God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)

Pastor Frank

A CHALLENGE FROM PASTOR FRANK

Posted on May 30, 2025 by West Oaks Fellowship

On Tuesday evening we gathered as believers in preparation for the year 2025, reaffirming our commitment to Christ Jesus by participating together in Communion (The Lord’s Supper).

Before the partaking of Communion, the Lord encouraged me to take the opportunity that was available and share a few things that He was stirring my heart with. For those of you that attended the New Years Eve service Tuesday evening, this is simply a reminder of the challenges I shared. For those that weren’t able to make it, here are a few things “the Church” (at large) and our local New Testament Church body, aka West Oaks Fellowship, needs to focus in on immediately, as we say goodbye to 2024 and shift our focus to what lies ahead in 2025 and beyond!

Believers are called to live a life of spiritual awareness (alertness), spiritual fulfillment, and faith because we are made alive (have life, are now living) in and through our Lord and Christ Jesus! As the Lord’s people, we have an open (standing) invitation to live moment by moment, fully embracing these concepts as essentials for successful and productive Christian living.

However, the challenge started with a reminder that our God / Lord is the same yesterday, today, and forever from Hebrews 13:8 and Psalm 102:25-28. Therefore, no matter whatever is going on in our lives and / or in our world. . . in good days of celebrating and rejoicing, or difficult ones . . . we must rest in the confident assurance of our Lord’s faithfulness with all our hope fixed solely on HIM! We serve the same Lord, who remains the same in every one of our situations … suffering or in prosperity, strong or weak, meek or bold, doubting or fearless, sad or in joyful celebration!

YOUR LORD IS NOT CHANGING — even though you will be, and according to James 1:17 there is no variation or “shifting shadow” in the framework of His character / nature!

CHALLENGE #1 – Be SPIRITUALLY ALERT (aware) IN 2025!

1 Peter 5:8 reminds every one of Christ’s genuine followers to be of “sober spirit” and to be “on the alert” (spiritually aware). Know this, spiritual awareness is essential according to 1 Corinthians 16:13; believers are not asked, but told / commanded to “be alert” and “stand firm” – acting like grown-ups instead of babies!

CHALLENGE #2 – Be SPIRITUALLY FULFILLED IN 2025!

John 10:10 confirms that Jesus Christ came so that we might have “life” and have life “abundantly!” Spiritual fulfillment is a vital aspect because, according to 1 Corinthians 3:20, our Lord is able to work in and through us, as believers, far more “abundantly” than we even can “ask” or “think!”

CHALLENGE #3 – LIVE BY FAITH IN 2025!

In Galatians 2:20, New Testament Christians are challenged to this perspective and calling. This is not about religious participation, but a responsive life lived in conjunction with Christ’s purposes and goals for each individual believer. Death – the crucifixion of one’s own flesh – opens the door to this exhilarating life of faith! One must forever stop living by sight, or human perspective, and according to 2 Corinthians 5:7, walk by faith in Christ Jesus, His Word, and the Holy Spirit, because as stated in Romans 1:7 and Habakkuk 2:4, the just or “the righteous live by faith!”

Will you accept this challenge? If so, it will positively change you, making you more into the image of Jesus Christ, which will dynamically change our church, making us a stronger and more cohesive body, which will change our community / society, then hopefully our country and our world!

May our hearts unite with many, many generations of faithful brothers and sisters in Christ who have relentlessly decided to follow Jesus … “no turning back, no turning back” … the world behind me, the cross before me, no turning back, no turning back!”

His & Yours, because of GRACE

(God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)

-PF

GUILT -V- CONVICTION

Posted on May 30, 2025 by West Oaks Fellowship

Too often believers (true followers of Jesus Christ) ask, “Is what I’m experiencing (feeling)guilt or conviction?”

Initially, one must come to recognize the ultimate goal / purpose of these sentiments and responses or reactions as an elementary (basic / foundational) part of successful, abundant Christian living (John 10:10). The ultimate objective or purpose of biblical / spiritual conviction is to bring about behavior modification / transformation, working to shape or mold an individual into a stronger, more mature, disciple of the Lord. The overriding objective of guilt is spiritually destructive, working to make one feel worthless, unlovable, unacceptable, and even, perhaps, as useless as possible, due to recent or even past improper, sinful behavior. Feelings of guilt leave out the most critical, spiritual step of “turning from”from something of disgrace and rebellion and “turning to” something of righteousness and truth!

The palmist put it this way … “Depart from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous, and His ears are open to their cry.” (Psalm 34:14-15) Romans 10:9b declares, “Abhor (shudder from) what is evil; cling to what is good.” Then consider 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22, “But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; abstain from every form of evil.”

Christ’s church / believers in Thessalonica had an incredible testimony among those in Macedonia and Achaia because they had, “turned to God from idols to serve a living and true God!” (1 Thessalonians 1:9-10)

So genuine conviction, either in the aspect of salvation, or in the process of spiritual development and growing into maturity, embraces the concept of a significant turning! This behavior is the turning away from something, as in laying something aside (those things which so easily entangle us – Hebrews 12:1), and turning to and fully embracing something else. That’s turning from known sin / rebellion, as a result of spiritual / biblical conviction, and then turning fully to … wholeheartedly embracing the Lord’s (biblical) Truth on the matter through spiritual, mental, and behavioral transformation / extreme modification. (Romans 12:1-2) Our Lord’s objective in conviction is always change for the better, His people becoming permanently more like Him! (2 Peter 1:4)

“For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed (fashioned or shaped, having likeness) to the image of His Son!”
Romans 8:29

Therefore, conviction, as a result of God’s Word and the working of God’s Holy Spirit in one’s life, is an awesome gift and incontestable blessing from the Lord to assist each and every one of His followers while remaining in life on this earth as His children, servants, ministers, and ambassadors.

With all that said, guilt, on the other hand, is not good and is not a gift from above, but instead a tool of the enemy to cripple and render useless the Lord’s people. That’s why being able to discern each feeling(guilt or conviction) – and its true source – is a highly valuable tool in the daily walk of every believer. By the way, the way we use the word, in relation to “feeling guilty” about something isn’t really in the scriptures, although the word for shame may in some biblical references be similar. Our enemies, whether that be self, one’s own flesh, the world or the devil himself, are always actively presenting the human emotions of guilt, regret, blame, and shame. They want these emotions to plant voices and negative, destructive feelings right inside believers; telling us that we are no good, that we are not free (to obey Christ rather than one’s sin nature), that we will undoubtedly do that ugly sin and rebellion again (over and over), and that if anyone finds out — the hat of unworthiness will surely rest upon one’s head for everyone to see, and surely God’s love, as well as His redemption, is nullified due to one’s own actions / behavior!

Remember …“he is a liar and the father of lies” (John 8:44). In reality, guilt declares that we are responsible for saving ourselves, and that because, for humans, Christ’s disciples know and understand that that saving oneself is impossible, therefore the enemy throws accusations at believers (remember he is the accuser of Christ-followers – Revelation 12:10), declaring that grace is exhausted (all used up because of one’s sinful behavior)and there remains no hope, no peace, no deliverance, etc., etc.!

An individual’s feelings of guilt will result in hiding from the Lord in shame, just like Adam and Eve did in the Garden. One either runs to Christ or runs away … hiding in guilt and shame! There are all kinds of issues, mental and physical, related to living in guilt and shame, besides the spiritual consequences, which are not addressed in this document. However, there is a way out, a path to victory, if guilt has its debilitating stranglehold on you!

“Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.”
Ephesians 6:11-13

“Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”
James 4:7

Deal with one’s sin before the Lord

“How blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered! How blessed is the man to whom the Lord does not impute iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit! When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me; My vitality was drained away as with the fever heat of summer. Selah. I acknowledged my sin to You, and my iniquity I did not hide; I said, ‘I will confess my transgressions to the Lord’; and You forgave the guilt of my sin. Selah.”
Psalm 32:1-5

Never let the past have a place in or control your future

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.”
2 Corinthians 5:17

“Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 3:13-14

Guilt is not for us, but spiritual conviction is a precious tool for the Lord to keep us moving forward on the right path for His glory!

His & Yours – Because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense),

ONE BODY

Posted on May 30, 2025May 30, 2025 by West Oaks Fellowship

In June of 1985, 12 young people (mostly early 30’s or younger) sat in a living room, all pretty hurt and confused by the situations at our church, and reluctantly decided it would be best to form a new church. At that moment, we had hoped to be an outreach mission of our former church, and had no idea we wouldn’t be a member of the Southern Baptist denomination.

As things evolved, neither of those falsely presumed opportunities played out, which kind of left us hanging out on a limb.

We all knew the scriptures pretty well, and fully understood that the Baptist Church we were involved in wasn’t operating scripturally, but on the other hand, due to our Baptist heritage, had no real idea about being an independent, New Testament-based body of believers.

That reality forced us to dive deeper into God’s Word / Truth, longing for clarification and understanding to answer the question, “What is a New Testament Church and how should it operate?” We wrote letters to many churches (this was way before easy access web pages) asking them to share their doctrinal and organizational documents. In addition, for the next six months, mainly on Wednesday nights and Sunday evenings, we studied the biblical text alongside the documents provided by other ministries. We even actually discouraged other people from coming, stating that we didn’t know … have a clue … what we were going to do, and what the forming of a biblically-based New Testament Church actually looked like, and we certainly had no vision of becoming multi-ethnic as we are today!

We learned:

Sharing / Speaking the Truth (God’s Word) in Love should be at the very foundation of the new ministry.

Ephesians 4:14-16

That people, by considering the ministry of Jesus Christ, were more important than programs.

1 Corinthians 12:14-19

That we needed proper, biblically-qualified and spiritual leadership to serve Christ’s Church in biblically-defined roles.

Titus 1:6-9; 1 Timothy 3:1-7; 1 Timothy 3:8-13; 1 Peter 4:10-11

That the praise and worship of Jesus Christ, combined with ministry to / for one another, was absolutely essential, even though it was quite difficult to find a functioning scriptural model for us to emulate.

Psalm 34:1-3; Romans 12:10-13; Romans 12:15-16; Romans 15:7-8; Philippians 2:1-4; James 5:16

Needless to say, over the last 39 years, it has been difficult to stay focused and remain on path, and I have failed time and time again to keep things moving in the right direction. As I look back, perhaps the hardest years were those that hopefully have just passed – with the COVID issues, along with people leaving and, completely contrary to the scriptures (Hebrews 10:23-25), deciding that being connected to and active in a church body (attending worship services and fellowship opportunities) is not important … devaluing some of the very reasons Christ established His Church. It’s truly heartbreaking to see individuals become less and less connected, eventually just removing themselves from being a vital part of the body’s function, which actually causes every other member of the body to suffer and struggle a little.

Certainly, our church body is not perfect, nor are the humans (all of us, including the ministerial staff) perfect, but that doesn’t excuse or exempt us from attempting to function according to Christ’s design as a legitimate New Testament Church, founded and operating on that foundation without reference to various forms of denominationalism and / or religion.

Therefore, I really, genuinely need and fully appreciate your prayers and faithful support. WOF must maintain its course! To do that we must uphold, as absolutely essential, the parameters originally established at our inception, while embracing the need for reaching and training faithful individuals who are committed to growing in Christ, and whole-heartedly yielding (no matter what our world says or promotes), respecting and honoring the adherence to biblically-qualified leadership who will sacrificially serve Christ and His church.

Over the last couple of years, months, and even weeks, our Lord has brought new believers into our body, which is really encouraging. With that in mind and the opportunity that presents, we must as “one body” move forward once again (in year 39) in complete, unhesitant, and over-flowing response to Christ’s imperative command of making disciples (and disciple makers) from His declaration in Matthew 28:19-20!

I’m all in, even in my old age! How about you?

His and Yours, because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense)

FOLLOW

Posted on October 6, 2023October 27, 2023 by West Oaks Fellowship

It’s 2023. Media is king. If you haven’t noticed by now, chances are you have been living under a rock. Whether it be movies, TV, social media, news outlets, magazines, or newspapers, media has never been more prevalent in the lives of people today. Everyone follows someone. It has never been easier to choose and filter where your sources come from and choose which voices to listen to and which voices to tune out.

The word “follow” (Gk akoloutheó) is defined in the Scriptures, particularly Matthew 16:24, as:

“to accompany, to follow one who precedes, to join as or become a disciple.”

When we closely follow these media types, we in essence become their disciple, listening to and taking to heart what is said, whether it be true or false, good or evil, or from a biblical worldview or otherwise. We often look to these people to enlighten us, to show us the way, to explain the things going on around us, or to lead us on a path forward. And more times than not, we are hoodwinked, led astray, run amuck, and flat out deceived. Perhaps we’ve been going about this wrong.

In Psalm 119:105, we read, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” The Bible itself clearly states that our paths are illuminated by Scripture. The Word of God (1 Thessalonians 2:13), which is living and active (Hebrews 4:12), and profitable for all kinds of things (2 Timothy 3:16), shows the way that we must follow. But there’s even better news than that!

In the past few weeks, Pastor Frank and I have preached on proper Bible study and being a disciple of Christ. These go hand in hand. If we follow the Word (Scripture), we will in turn be following the Word (Jesus Christ). Conversely, we follow the Way (Jesus Christ, John 14:6) by following the way (Psalm 119:105).

This is as clear to us now as ever before, although all throughout Scripture, the Way has been revealed to all those would have ears to hear. In the Old Testament alone, the Ancient Word (Psalm 119:9-16, 160) shows us the Ancient Paths (Jeremiah 6:16), that leads us to the Ancient of Days (Daniel 7:9-14).

In the New Testament, several messages by Jesus reveal who we are supposed to follow. Luke 14:25-33 is one of the most powerful messages we have about the importance of following Christ, and counting the cost of doing so. But Christ, being the Word, also emphasized the heeding of His Word throughout His ministry, such as in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 7:24-27).

If we continue to look forward, Paul writes regarding the Truth of God’s Word and the person of Jesus Christ at work simultaneously. In Romans 10:17, faith in Christ comes by hearing the Word. In Colossians 3:16, we are admonished to commit the Word to our hearts so deeply that it dwells in us. In 2 Timothy 2:15, we are told to be accurate handlers of the Word. And in 1 Corinthians 11:1, Paul says as I imitate Christ, imitate me.

Time and time again throughout God’s Holy Word, we are shown how studying, understanding, meditating upon, heeding, and living according to Scripture is vitally united to knowing our Great Shepherd, hearing His voice, and following Him. There is no disconnect; if we wish to follow the Lord, we must follow His Word, and vice versa. Jesus Christ is at the same time the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No part of this is in existence without the other. Since this is the case, the ultimate Truth revealed in the Scripture and realized in the person of Jesus Christ must be considered when following the Lord.

Everyone follows someone. I wonder, who do you follow today? Will you merely profess Christ, and run around listening to everyone but Him? Or will you be a doer of the Word, and not merely a deluded hearer (James 1:22)? Don’t let anyone tell you any differently. Even in 2023,

JESUS

KING.

Soli Deo Gloria,

LIFE

Posted on March 2, 2023 by West Oaks Fellowship

Acts 17:24-29 – “The God who made the world and all things in it, since He is Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in temples made with hands; nor is He served by human hands, as though He needed anything, since He Himself gives to all people life and breath and all things; and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation, that they would seek God, if perhaps they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and exist (are, have our being), as even some of your own poets have said, ‘For we also are His children.’”

Perhaps, in reality, one doesn’t actually see or fully understand things as they are; instead one most likely sees and understands them from the somewhat skewed perspective of either fallen or redeemed humanity. In actuality, sometimes sad to say, the way one views life (and in particular their own life) actually shapes / forms one’s own existence! At that crossroad, the way one defines “life” serves to determine one’s own destiny. Beliefs will influence how one invests their time, money, skills / talents, and even, as a believer in Christ Jesus and His Word, the intrinsic value of worship, fellowship, study, prayer, and relationships!

Individuals often outwardly express their beliefs through clothes, jewelry, cars, hairstyles, bumper stickers, social media connections, tattoos, sports / hobby interests, and social circles. These somewhat unspoken influences make an impact and bring about effects (positive or negative) in life much more than one may realize or even understand. Too often they actually serve to determine expectations, moral / ethical values, spirituality, relationships, goals, and of course priorities. If life is a party, the primary value in life will be having fun. If life is in itself a battle or a game, winning will be of highest importance! However, If life on earth is viewed as a pilgrim, and one is simply passing through, the Lord’s view, God’s divine perspective, about everything becomes essential!

The Scripture (above) declares, “He Himself gives to all people life and breath and all things!” If life is from the Lord, (the Lord God formed man … and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being. From Genesis 2:7-8) then the perhaps simplified, but absolutely and undeniably the best way to view life is from His perspective! If then, “In Him we live and move and have our existence (being),” what other view should be effectively applicable?

Is life a test? Is life something entrusted to humanity? Is life a race? Is life as we know it a temporary assignment?

Study the TRUTH and receive the ANSWERS!

James 1:12, Hebrews 11:6, Jude 1:3

Jeremiah 1:5, Psalm 139:14, Romans 14:7-9

Hebrews 12:1, 1 Corinthians 9:24

Psalm 39:4-5, James 4:14, Hebrews 13:14, Philippians 3:20

This is my constant prayer for those that participate in the ministries of West Oaks Fellowship, “May the Word of God / Christ richly dwell within each of you /us!”

– taken from Colossians 3:16

His & Yours, because of GRACE (God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense),

Pastor Frank

MIRROR

Posted on May 9, 2022 by West Oaks Fellowship

In James 1:23 one finds the word “mirror” used in a unique application that demonstrates a tremendous spiritual truth and perspective for every believer:

For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror; for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was. But one who looks intently at the perfect law, the law of liberty, and abides by it, not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer, this man will be blessed in what he does.

Here we have “a hearer.” This individual looks at him/herself to see how they look and then races off to the duties of life. Before long, there is no more consideration of the image seen in the mirror as the demands of life overtake/overcome all remembrances. The mirror viewer has seen what they have seen, just as the hearer has heard what they have heard, however, nothing heard has any significant impact in their life, being easily drowned out and forgotten as life moves on.

A “doer” takes a much different approach. Instead of interpreting him/herself in light of him/herself (the reflection seen in the mirror), the doer compares or contrasts his/her life by the scrutiny and/or standard of something other than the image that’s projected. In contrast, spiritually speaking, the hearer certainly contemplates and considers the truth of God’s Word, but totally fails in application. Simply hearing about a feast will not satisfy hunger, hearing about a fresh spring will not quench thirst. The knowledge that there is shelter in the midst of a storm provides no protection from the storm’s fury, just as receiving information concerning a cure for some disease will never make the sick well!

However, the doer takes it to a different level by laying the template of “the perfect law of liberty,” which is the transcript of Christ’s character, upon their life and honestly/openly evaluating the places where the lines don’t match (spitting into the wind). Conversely, the hearers forget what manner of individual they truly are, making no effort to correct anything or align themselves within the lines/framework of God’s Word/Truth.

Contextually speaking, the Greek word “esóptroo,” which is translated into English as glass or mirror, refers to the best available reflective objects of that time period, mirrors made of highly polished Corinthian bronze. Even though no mirrors of that period produced the accurate images available today (Paul’s statement in I Corinthians 13:12), they were primarily used when fixing hair. Those of lesser means may have never owned a mirror, potentially not even knowing what they looked liked, certainly not even recognizing their own appearance.

If this were the case, then the meaning of this illustration expands, because those peering into the mirror are not even capable of accurately evaluating themselves spiritually even though they have “heard.” How many believers hear God’s Truth/Word, look in the mirror, and quickly forget who/what they actually are? How many willingly embellish what they see, afraid of our Lord’s chipping, shaping, and molding (transformation)? Is there a place in every faithful believer’s life for spiritual evaluation (moral inventory), where one’s own life is laid upon the template of Jesus Christ, His Word, His Truth? This “mirror” metaphor is very simple, yet highly expressive. If a person desires to see their face/self, and how they appear in their natural state, they gaze into a mirror. Their real face, with all its blemishes and imperfections, is clearly exhibited. Then, the individual is affected by their own appearance; they see deformities that might be remedied; spots, superfluities, and impurities, that might/could be removed.

While continuing to look into the mirror, one wishes a different appearance, purposing to do what ever is necessary to render a change (“I’ve got to lose some weight” or “wash this gray away, etc.”). However, upon leaving or removing the mirrored image, one soon forgets what really is, no longer recollecting how disagreeable one appears and even one’s own resolutions for improvement!

In most societies/cultures, there even exists another group of individuals as well, that are in absolute blindness, being totally deceived by contemporary philosophies, humanistic, narcissistic psychology, and corrupted theology. They stand before the mirror with a child’s rhyme, “Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the greatest of them all,” actually expecting to hear their name being broadcast in reply! Sadly, to their own demise, and ultimately the impotence of Christ’s church, many who call themselves teachers, evangelists, prophets, apostles and pastors have erroneously united with this ideology.

Only the Word/Truth of God, coupled with the convicting power of His Holy Spirit, provides an authentic, distinctly clear, image for spiritual evaluation. The one who responds to what’s seen/heard has the opportunity to move forward, becoming more than just a hearer, but an effectual doer, as they carefully examine their own life compared only to Jesus Christ (not anyone or anything else) and His perfect law of liberty. Without this standard, the hearers presuppose an unscriptural trust in God’s mercy, convincing themselves that genuine repentance is not necessary and that a transformed life is simply an unrealistic dogma, thus deceiving their own spiritual being. Consider . . .

They come to you (the Prophet, a man of God with the Word/Truth of God) as people come, and sit before you as My people and hear your words, but they do not do them, for they do the lustful desires expressed by their mouth, and their heart goes after their gain. Behold, you are to them like a sensual song by one who has a beautiful voice and plays well on an instrument; for they hear your words but they do not practice them. — Ezekiel 33:31-33

Don’t foolishly ask how you look to you, or even how you look or think you look to others! You will soon forget. Instead ask yourself how you look in comparison to your Lord, and humbly request to become an accurate reflection of His nature, character, and glory.

May we all be effectual doers! — Pastor Frank

TURN

Posted on May 9, 2022 by West Oaks Fellowship

The word “turn” appears well over 250 times in modern translations of the Bible, and that doesn’t even include the words “turned” or “turning.” Why would a seemingly small, somewhat insignificant word find such a prominent place in Scripture?

In Acts 26, one finds the Apostle Paul giving his testimony (and defense) to King Agrippa. In the midst of a hearing, Paul is persuaded (no doubt, by God’s Holy Spirit) to give the details of his personal conversion experience. In verse 14, Christ speaks directly to Paul (then called Saul) asking Him, “Why are you persecuting Me?” At that point, Paul learns God’s perspective concerning his life’s activity … “It is hard for you to kick against the goads.” Then the Lord reveals His plan and purpose for Paul’s life (Acts 26:16-18):

I have appeared to you, to appoint you a minister and a witness not only to the things which you have seen, but also to the things in which I will appear to you; rescuing you from the Jewish people and from the Gentiles, to whom I am sending you, to open their eyes so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the dominion of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and an inheritance among those who have been sanctified by faith in Me.

Here we see God’s will – that the Jew and Gentile (any non Jew) would have their (spiritual) eyes opened and turn from the darkness (they were trapped in due to sin, even Satan’s dominion) to the light of Christ, His Gospel and Truth. In this passage the word “TURN” is the compound word “epistrepho,” in the Greek text meaning “to revert” or “convert” either in a literal, moral or spiritual sense. Therefore, Paul’s new mission in life became reverting Jews, as well as Gentiles from their current path onto/into a new route or course.

It’s interesting to note that in describing the ministry of John the Baptist, Christ’s designated predecessor, the same word “epistrepho” is employed in Luke 1:17 to describe the purpose of JB’s ministry:

TO TURN THE HEARTS OF THE FATHERS BACK TO THE CHILDREN, and the disobedient to the attitude of the righteous, so as to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.

Fathers’ hearts needed to “turn” (revert/convert) back to their children; the hearts of the disobedient needed to “turn” (revert/convert) to an attitude of righteousness, all in preparation of meeting and believing the Christ (the anointed One sent from God above).

James also uses “epistrepho” in 5:19 concerning ministry to people in the church that “stray from the truth.” Those individuals who help someone “turn” or revert/convert back to the truth, save souls from death and assist in stopping sin’s destructive rampage in a life and Christ’s church.

Christ uses “epistrepho” (translated return) when He quotes the Prophet Isaiah in Matthew 13:10-17 while explaining the true spiritual need of the Hebrew people:

FOR THE HEART OF THIS PEOPLE HAS BECOME DULL, WITH THEIR EARS THEY SCARCELY HEAR, AND THEY HAVE CLOSED THEIR EYES, OTHERWISE THEY WOULD SEE WITH THEIR EYES, HEAR WITH THEIR EARS, AND UNDERSTAND WITH THEIR HEART AND RETURN, AND I WOULD HEAL THEM.

The whole concept of the word “turn” or “turning” speaks of a significant, life- changing transformation that God desires to occur in one’s life … thus its scriptural and spiritual importance! Consider the record given in Acts 11:22, “A large number who believed turned to the Lord.” Those who truly “believed” the message of Christ, also “turned!” This presents an interesting question: “Does believing in Christ actually automatically bring about a compelling, life-transforming, significant change?” While I know we all think it should, in reality, we all know people who claim to be believers, but there is no evidence of any moral, spiritual, and/or ethical alteration or transformation!

Truly believing in Christ requires an acknowledgement of one’s own sinful nature and condition – owning up to the fact that you are desperately wicked, removed from relationship with God because of your own actions and reprobate (defined as the following):

morally unprincipled.
One who is destined to damnation due to behavior/actions.
One rejected by God’s heart.

Then one must fully trust and rely upon Christ’s suffering and atoning sacrificial death as complete, 100% propitiation/payment for all your sin. In conjunction with this faith in Christ, one must also rely upon His promise of new life in/with Him now and into/throughout eternity. This requires a complete abandonment of one’s own resources and ability to obtain salvation, and demands an unrelenting need and dependence upon Jesus Christ.

The real question of true, life transforming belief and genuine salvation is, “Does one really need Jesus and what He has to offer humanity?” Don’t forget, “The demons also believe, and shudder” (James 2:19), but they aren’t looking into Christ’s salvation, they don’t “turn” to the things of the Lord, and/or have their thoughts, actions, deeds/behavior transformed by knowing Christ, and their minds/hearts certainly aren’t being renewed. Therefore the idea of someone making a “turn” to Christ has a much broader implication and application than an individual simply praying what we call the “prayer of salvation.” Instead it is a true conversion and redirection of one’s life.

In Acts 14:11 Barnabas and Paul tell the crowd (Gentiles), which is engaged in pagan worship under the leadership of a priest of Zeus, that “they preach the gospel” in order for them to have an opportunity to “turn from these vain things to a living God!”

According to Acts 15:19, many Gentiles were “turning to God” as a result of hearing the liberating message of Christ’s gospel, and how about those Thessalonians who “Turned to God from idols to serve a living and true God, and to wait for His Son from heaven, . . . , that is Jesus, who rescues us from the wrath to come.”

So, how much do we actually need the Lord in 2011? Does one individually really need the Lord – one’s family, our church, our nation, this world? Whose resources (abilities and powers) will we actually place our trust in? Yes, every individual, every family, and our church/ministry will have to decide upon whom we rely? Will we “Turn To Heaven In Twenty Eleven” or continue status quo?

As your pastor and friend, I request the honor of helping you make the right decision/choice and experiencing a God-blessed New Year, beginning Sunday morning 01/02/2011.

Pastor Frank